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| Author: | poplocker [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 9:57 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Text breakup? |
Hey guys, so I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, asked her out, went out 2-3 times, but after spending time with her I'm not really into her. Am I obligated to tell her I don't want to see her anymore? Or do I not even call her back? We've only been out a couple of times, kissed twice (she's not too good in that department), and I don't really feel any connection. I feel like it would be the nice thing to do to text her and tell her I just want to be friends or w/e, but at the same time I feel like I would be doing more work than I have to. I figured if she didn't get the hint from me not texting her to schedule any meeting/hang out date, I could just text her back telling her I'm not interested. What do I do here? Please help, Poplocker |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 10:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Text breakup? |
Quote: Hey guys, so I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, asked her out, went out 2-3 times, but after spending time with her I'm not really into her.
After going out 2-3 times the polite gentleman thing to do would be to tell her you just don't feel a connection and don't want to see her anymore. That's a lot better than simply not calling or messaging her. You never know who her friends may be and you don't want a bad reputation following you around. Besides, I think we as guys would all appreciate that if the shoe was on the other foot.
Am I obligated to tell her I don't want to see her anymore? Or do I not even call her back? We've only been out a couple of times, kissed twice (she's not too good in that department), and I don't really feel any connection. I feel like it would be the nice thing to do to text her and tell her I just want to be friends or w/e, but at the same time I feel like I would be doing more work than I have to. I figured if she didn't get the hint from me not texting her to schedule any meeting/hang out date, I could just text her back telling her I'm not interested. What do I do here? Please help, Poplocker |
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| Author: | Marc [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 2:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Text breakup? |
Quote: Hey guys, so I met this girl a couple of weeks ago, asked her out, went out 2-3 times, but after spending time with her I'm not really into her.
Do it in person and be respectful. You don't have to tell her that you are not interested but be subtle about it w/o hurting her. Besides, can you not say anything much and just turn her into a good friend i.e. dont Kino escalate, no flirting etc..Am I obligated to tell her I don't want to see her anymore? Or do I not even call her back? We've only been out a couple of times, kissed twice (she's not too good in that department), and I don't really feel any connection. I feel like it would be the nice thing to do to text her and tell her I just want to be friends or w/e, but at the same time I feel like I would be doing more work than I have to. I figured if she didn't get the hint from me not texting her to schedule any meeting/hang out date, I could just text her back telling her I'm not interested. What do I do here? Please help, Poplocker Its always good to make the girl feel that its her decision and not yours. That way she can walk away with her pride and confidence and you secretly know that you've achieved your 'goals' |
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| Author: | Txacoli [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 2:48 am ] |
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I don't think it's really necessary to tell her in person, it's only a few dates and no f-close. A text is just fine. |
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| Author: | poplocker [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 7:42 am ] |
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Hey thanks a ton guys, I sent her an honest text message telling her that I think she's great but also how that I didn't feel a strong connection between us, I told her I hoped to remain friends and be on good terms. She responded, saying she agreed and wanted to be friends. Completely mutual breakup? Have I accomplished the impossible? (Jk) Thanks again! |
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| Author: | Txacoli [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 1:24 pm ] |
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Well, she may not agree as much as she says LOL, but it's a nice reaction from a normal person, so all good. |
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| Author: | poplocker [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 6:42 pm ] |
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right no, obviously I didn't buy the whole agreement part, I'm just glad I can move on, poor girl was such a bad kisser... |
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