Sorry this is a long post
Hi i know this forum is mainly for guys but i would really appreciate if u cud help me out as my head is melted. i work with this guy, have done for over a year and theres always been a huge connection but i had a bf.when i split with my bf about 3 months ago things started happening with me and this guy, its amazing the chemistry, how well we get on, everything jus feels perfect. the problem is he says hes not ready for a relationship. we said we'd give it a go but then he changed his mind after a wk he had acted all strange that wk and wouldnt meet up wit me he says that it wont end well because we wrk together n that he hates been associated with anyone and that he's lousy at being a bf cos hes selfish. But everytime we are out together we end up kissing and he stays over nite but he doesnt want to have sex with me we do other stuff like he goes down on me etc and is ectremely afectionate towards me but he says he cares too much about me to have sex with me bcos hes not ready for a relationship and he knows he;ll hurt me if we just have a one night stand and he says in the future he'd like to be able to give it a proper chance and if we have sex now that wont happen.and i know he cares about me he'd do anything for me.i offered to give him head the other morning and he wouldnt take it either cos he said it would be too serious and he doesnt want me thinking hes taking advantage.we went out for lunch then and spent the whole day together and had an amazing fun time. I would just like to know what i should do, should i put an end to it completely cos its not going anywhere. or do you think it will go somewhere? and do you think hes telling the truth or that theres sumother reason. I dont want to sound arrogant but im attractive and he says he thinks im incredibly sexy and hot so just incase u thought that was the problem its not. i just like him so much n i cant work out why if u really liked sumone and everything was so gud with them that u wudn give it a shot?