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Author:  JOHNNYBOY29 [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 12:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Texts after a "date"
Im not a big texter and generally rather phone up the girl but there are some instances where a text is deemed appropriate - such as the same night you had a "date".

After parting with the girl I generally send a text just to ask whether she got home ok (I figured its a mans job to check that she got home safely). Is that a good thing?


For example last friday I texted "let me know when you get home safely" and got a response saying "im home now - it was nice seeing you tonight"

What other texts are there to kind of finish off a date or a meet up etc.
Author:  somebody delete this shit [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 12:23 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts after a "date"
Quote:
Im not a big texter and generally rather phone up the girl but there are some instances where a text is deemed appropriate - such as the same night you had a "date".

After parting with the girl I generally send a text just to ask whether she got home ok (I figured its a mans job to check that she got home safely). Is that a good thing?


For example last friday I texted "let me know when you get home safely" and got a response saying "im home now - it was nice seeing you tonight"

What other texts are there to kind of finish off a date or a meet up etc.
this isn't rocket science talk about something that happened during the date

i don't like texting much

but most of the texts i send are just rhetorical statements that don't even need responses
Author:  somebody delete this shit [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 12:23 pm ]
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You should've texted her

So am I getting a blowjob today or is that for the third date?
Author:  JOHNNYBOY29 [ Sun Dec 11, 2011 12:39 pm ]
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I know its not rocket science but was curious.

I dont send questions I do generally send statements. But obviously she needs to tell me when she gets home safely (she doesnt live in the safest part of London and youre talking about midnight - bad combo)
Author:  Marc [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 2:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Texts after a "date"
Quote:
Im not a big texter and generally rather phone up the girl but there are some instances where a text is deemed appropriate - such as the same night you had a "date".

After parting with the girl I generally send a text just to ask whether she got home ok (I figured its a mans job to check that she got home safely). Is that a good thing?


For example last friday I texted "let me know when you get home safely" and got a response saying "im home now - it was nice seeing you tonight"

What other texts are there to kind of finish off a date or a meet up etc.
I do that too. Keep it short. Never had a bad response.

If not in person, Always call to set the next date.

In person is better than phone, phone is better than text.
Author:  getwit [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 3:35 am ]
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Other than making sure she got home safely, I don't see the purpose of texting after a date.

If you're more entertaining over text than in person, then that will pose a serious issue. So try not to put yourself in that position cause it's very easy to be assertive over text. Not as easy to be assertive in person.
Author:  Bo_Darville [ Mon Dec 12, 2011 4:15 am ]
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I hardly ever text right after, or thes ame night, I don't want to be like Mikey from Swingers, haha. (If you haven't seen the movie, WATCH IT!)

I usually text the next day, to tell her I had a nice time and we should do it again soon.

I haven't had the best luck with that recently.

Although I think if she's into you, she'll be glad to get that text, if not, well then you probably won't get a reply and it won't matter either way.

Or in my case the last few times, "Thanks, I had fun too", and then no further responses.

I'm gonna stop sending that text actually, I think I need to come up with soemthing better for the day after.
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