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Author:  igetsnobuns77 [ Fri Dec 09, 2011 6:16 pm ]
Post subject:  Why Do I Get No Buns?

Quick Version
I used to be a more reserved dude who didn't do too much to stand out but used to pull girls without too much problem. Now I'm a quiet, boring guy who can only get a hi and bye out of a girl before she loses interest because I've lost the ability to get anything from my interactions. I'm broke, can't get out to meet girls, and now I suck at talking to everyone so how can I stop myself from being forever alone?

Extended Version
I never had a problem getting girls but now all I have is female friends who I don't bother with. I don't flirt the same way I used to. Everything I've ever done to get girls was natural and they always seemed to like me because of my personality and my man meat. Now I feel like a broke, sorry, desperate loser and even though I don't show it on the outside I still can't get the same love anymore.

I'm not sure what I do wrong because I'm pretty sure based off of looks and pure swag alone that I can pull quite a lot of females. I'm not buff anymore really since I stopped working out and got incredibly depressed and lazy but I do get a decent amount of female love without trying but then again it's just girls being nice.

The one thing I think works against me is my general laid back character. My swagger is more of the cool, gentlemanly jokester type. I'm a nice person but I don't soft up to people because I know certain parasites out there feed off of it males and females included. My problem is I rarely approach but I do get approached every once in a while and because I'm so quiet I never really make nothing out of the interaction.

I'm just not the type to try and get attention. I get ignored when I call girls and the ones who don't ignore me I'm usually not too interested in. On top of that the girls I'm trying to mess with don't live anywhere close and I live with my mom. What do I do? I'm just a poor guy trying to get laid.

Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Fri Dec 09, 2011 8:58 pm ]
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Start with being positive, i know this is vague but there is a lot of methods out there on how to be overall more positive. This will help with your mindsets and maximize your potential in each circumstance.

Author:  igetsnobuns77 [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 7:02 pm ]
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Like what? Being positive was easy until it failed me enough times so now I'm just neutral.

Author:  cerebralassassin [ Tue Dec 13, 2011 7:30 pm ]
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you problem is that you seem disillusioned with women and from the way youve talked it sounds like your either really depressed or just cant be bothered anymore the problem is if you cant be bothered then why should any body else.

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