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| Author: | Snarg [ Fri Dec 09, 2011 3:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Had a date planned, should I cancel? |
I had a date planned for tonight, and she recently sent me a text: "So I'm not sure what you were thinking about tonight, but I need to let you know that I am recently trying to get over someone. Let me know what you're thinking." So, how do I respond to this? I'm assuming I should cancel, but I'm not sure what the best way of wording it would be. |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Fri Dec 09, 2011 3:55 pm ] |
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Just go for it and when she keeps backing off say goodnight and leave. |
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| Author: | SignAFC [ Fri Dec 09, 2011 5:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Had a date planned, should I cancel? |
Quote: I had a date planned for tonight, and she recently sent me a text:
"Perfect, I'm trying to get this girl to get over me""So I'm not sure what you were thinking about tonight, but I need to let you know that I am recently trying to get over someone. Let me know what you're thinking." So, how do I respond to this? I'm assuming I should cancel, but I'm not sure what the best way of wording it would be. And if you cancel it'll just show what your intentions were |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Fri Dec 09, 2011 5:17 pm ] |
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Uh why cancel? Tho I get the feeling that you gave her a sexual vibe and she doesn't want a one night stand. |
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| Author: | ItsAlwaysOn [ Sat Dec 10, 2011 5:06 am ] |
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i see no good reason to cancel here. i know this is the non-pua response, but id probably just be like "so what better way to do that then to go out and have a great time tonight? no pressure, lets just take it slow and have fun". |
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| Author: | Entourages [ Sat Dec 10, 2011 5:38 am ] |
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Brush that comment off, she is probably shit testing you a bit... she just got out of a relationship, and funny story no one ever leaves a good relationship, you dont ever leave a marriage happy or breakup with a girl when everything is perfectly fine do you? No, she just needs to make sure she doesnt get hurt... SignAFC had a good line because it shows commonalities, but at the same time she can think moving to fast. What ever you do don't cancel, just be, "Well I was thinking chinese, but then I realized I am trying to go healthy, less salty foods, than I was thinking pizza, but I had a cheese lunch, so I am pretty much lost for words, you want to have shushi?" |
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