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| Author: | J0N0 [ Thu Dec 08, 2011 4:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girl at work? |
Cut to the chase as quick as possible here. Started working at a place around 3 months ago. (I'm 19 myself and the girl in question is 18 ) . Gorgeous girl, the type who'd turn heads when she walks into the room. The last 2 or 3 weeks she's been giving me some serious IOI's. Constantly being around me, or in my vicinity. Always resting her head on my shoulder. Giggling and so on. Serious eye contact. We kissed the other day when we were both alone in the 'Kitchen' and since she's been all over me like a rash. However....Today, I found out from a colleague that... (In fact her actual words were) I'm surprised you haven't asked her out, Because she's going with another fella now. She was out with him last Saturday and ended up back at his). But even since, she's still all over me like a rash. Trying to keep my head here and keep calm. However usualy on her way out from work she comes to me for a quick 'cuddle'. Today, She never, and turned around and smirked as though to say 'How are you gonna react?' She's admitted she likes me via text and so on. I'm just not sure what to make of it. Anyone able to point what i should do next? The place is voluntary work so you can come and go when you please. Maybe i should offer her a chance to miss me by not showing up...And so on. Anyone point me in the right direction? I've played 'Game' on her. But now i feel she's been pissing on me from minute 1. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Thu Dec 08, 2011 7:13 pm ] |
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ahhh 18 year olds, ok, so look here is the thing, young girls, 18 years old to be specific, have a tenancy, to be very flirty, very outgoing (the hot ones tend to be popular), have quite a few options (once again speaking of the hotties), they like to tease and test, they are flaky, they love attention and validation, here is a game plan for you since you already work together ok, so you're at work one day, invite her out in person, to do something close to your house, while out with her, talk about, common interests and start flirting, and hitting on her, get her a little worked up and into it and get her comfortable with it, get a bit of compliance from her, then go for a kiss, turn the kiss into a makeout, then come up with an excuse to go to your house, don't seek her approval on it or anything, just say, hey, I got this new blah blah blah at, my house, lets go there, but we can only stay for a little while, then just get up and assume she will follow, if she really doesn't want to she will break through the social pressure and say no, now if this doesn't work, get her phone number, expect her to be flaky and never meet you up when it is over the phone unless she doesn't have a bf and she thinks you are better then all the other options she has (usually 18 year old hotties have plenty) your best bet, get her in person, invite her out in person, try to have sex with her asap, once sex has been had, she will be invested in you big time, and will be less likely to flake, more likely to repeat the process with no guild and anxiety on her end |
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| Author: | J0N0 [ Thu Dec 08, 2011 8:02 pm ] |
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Cheers pal. However, i've had her number already a little while. I'm just a little dumbfounded as to how this other dude has appeared from nowhere yet she's still all over me. Maybe she just wants me stop fucking around and ask her out. Thanks for the info, i'll ask her out tomorrow. It's getting past that barrier! COME ON 
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| Author: | J0N0 [ Thu Dec 08, 2011 8:09 pm ] |
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Actually, Pumpington. This last sentence - your best bet, get her in person, invite her out in person, try to have sex with her asap, once sex has been had, she will be invested in you big time, and will be less likely to flake, more likely to repeat the process with no guild and anxiety on her end. Are you saying once we've had sex, she's less likely to be spending her time with other guy's and she'll be invested in me? I've got to make it happen now otherwise it'l be regretted. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Fri Dec 09, 2011 3:14 am ] |
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Quote: Actually, Pumpington. This last sentence - your best bet, get her in person, invite her out in person, try to have sex with her asap, once sex has been had, she will be invested in you big time, and will be less likely to flake, more likely to repeat the process with no guild and anxiety on her end.
nope not what im saying, she could possibly just turn you both into friends with benefits for all I know, what the idea is, is if you have sex with her, she is invested in you past the point where her asd can interfere, and will be less likely to flake, more likely to come meet up with you for sex, the backwards rationalization for her is, hmm... I already had sex with this guy there fore he must be special to me because If I had sex with him and he is not special I am a slut, and sluts are bad Are you saying once we've had sex, she's less likely to be spending her time with other guy's and she'll be invested in me? I've got to make it happen now otherwise it'l be regretted.  now the thing is she is 18, think about when you were 18, did you want meaningful relationships?, or did you want the means to have sex as often as possible with the most attractive person possible?, and if you answered yes to wanting a relationship, think of the reason why you wanted a relationship, was it to get laid?, most likely it was, now, you know the way you are attracted to alot of girls you see?, guess what girls are the same way, they see tons of guys that they are attracted to, ask them if that is true, the answer is no, but guess what, that is asd talking and is not the truth, it is the same as saying HEY BRITNEY, DO YOU LIKE HOT TOM?, britney:no ha, i don't like tom , you:AHHH OK (2 weeks later she is fucking and dating tom)
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| Author: | J0N0 [ Fri Dec 09, 2011 5:04 pm ] |
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Update - On her way out today i thought bollocks, if i let her go now that will be it. Worked up the confidence and i said to her! 'Hey,What you doing next Friday? Nothing i don't think, Why? I'm going out to town, You should come!'. She looked me deep in the eye and said 'I think so too!'. She approached me and gave me a cuddle. Felt great afterwards but this is just the start. The plan would now be naturally to get her out & Nail her  Cheers for the advice Pumpington. Way to go!! |
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