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Actually I had one instance where I didn't f close and she came back at me even stronger. It may have partly been an ego thing, "he didnt have sex with with me, wtf? ill get him!" It could also make her more comfortable as it had with that one girl. With the girl mentioned in the original post, it was the only play I had left as I couldnt get it up with her. But it got me to thinking what if you told her no. Made her chase even more. You could potentially turn what would have been just a ons into a long term fb. Atleast theoretically it makes sense. What guy does that? Has sex handed to him and passes on it? He must be the exception. Just some thoughts, I'm open to all opinions presented on this though.

Author:	supern0va1 [ Wed Dec 07, 2011 4:50 am ]
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Ok heres the story and I need advise on if I coulda done this better: Went to this party, met and made out with HB9 on the dance floor after she gave me an approach invitation. Then I build some comfort, and pull her back to her dorm room. Good end game, I get past LMR, and I can f close. I don't. This girl is so hot that I wanna keep her around. I get enough sex, not as hot as this chick, but I wanna make this girl a regular instead of just one night. I saw this on the forums and it makes some sense to me, make her wait for it, its kinda similar rational that girls have about sex "if i make him wait for it he'll stick around." Any ideas or thoughts on this? So anyways in the morning. I told her "I was tired, but I didnt want to do it, [her jaw drops] but i think you're actually kinda cool. And i wanna see u again. What I have found is one nights, dont turn out that great." So here I know I am conveying a lot of interest, but I try to counter it with a bit of a dhv. She thanks me for saying that and seems like she likes it. And then I assure her that I am looking for nothing serious. I leave her house and she says see you again soon or something like that. Idr what exactly but it was a clear indication she wanted to see me again. So my question is what do you guys think of this strategy, to save the one night and enjoy more nights with her? I normally would just do the f close, but this girl is a 9 and I like being around her. Any experience on this, advise, theories, or discussion on this would be appreciated.

Author:	detox75 [ Wed Dec 07, 2011 7:05 am ]
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Have you noticed that when you f-close a chick they tend to disappear faster then when you can but you don't? Ya neither do I. I have better retention possibilities when I f-close, and I don't alter my f-closing behavior if they are super hot.

Author:	supern0va1 [ Wed Dec 07, 2011 7:16 am ]
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Actually I had one instance where I didn't f close and she came back at me even stronger. It may have partly been an ego thing, "he didnt have sex with with me, wtf? ill get him!" It could also make her more comfortable as it had with that one girl. With the girl mentioned in the original post, it was the only play I had left as I couldnt get it up with her. But it got me to thinking what if you told her no. Made her chase even more. You could potentially turn what would have been just a ons into a long term fb. Atleast theoretically it makes sense. What guy does that? Has sex handed to him and passes on it? He must be the exception. Just some thoughts, I'm open to all opinions presented on this though.

Author:	pumpington [ Wed Dec 07, 2011 6:19 pm ]
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I dis-like this strategy I have experienced the opposite, but if it is working for you, use it, but from what I have seen more investment the better, much better to have sex sooner then later, so it becomes congruent and she is invested in you, gives her asd less time to act up and backwards rationalize something is not right about you, it seems you are thinking having sex in one night for some reason means a girl is less likely to want repeat business, quite the contrary, sex is a big investment for a girl, and most likely she will backwards rationalize you are special to her, if she has sex with you

Author:	hey_lover [ Wed Dec 07, 2011 6:43 pm ]
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Quote: Actually I had one instance where I didn't f close and she came back at me even stronger. It may have partly been an ego thing, "he didnt have sex with with me, wtf? ill get him!" It could also make her more comfortable as it had with that one girl. With the girl mentioned in the original post, it was the only play I had left as I couldnt get it up with her. But it got me to thinking what if you told her no. Made her chase even more. You could potentially turn what would have been just a ons into a long term fb. Atleast theoretically it makes sense. What guy does that? Has sex handed to him and passes on it? He must be the exception. Just some thoughts, I'm open to all opinions presented on this though. A girl once tried to bribe me into staying over at her place, by pulling me onto her wide open legs and dry humping me. I played along, of course, but I still left her a few minutes later.......so that I could go home and get my beloved sleep.

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Author:	supern0va1 [ Wed Dec 07, 2011 9:05 pm ]
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hey_lover- thats really cute and all but were here to help reach new levels in our game. Thanks for the other comments guys. I'm just being open to the idea. This was the only play I had left as I was unable to get it up with her. So thinking further, I was wondering if it would work, if it doesn't work than thats cool, but theres no reason to totally shut down the idea without at least thinking about it. I get sex, and it isn't the most important thing here, improving myself and becoming better at game is.

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