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| Author: | bp029 [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 3:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Second guessing yourself |
What is the most ridiculous time you've second guessed yourself that someone wanted you/was attracted to you? I once had a girl in my bed in her bra and panties and I was wondering whether I should go in for the kiss. She was crashing at my house and I helped her undress (she was kind of drunk) she asked me to stay as I was leaving the room. I figured she just wanted to talk lmao. |
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| Author: | JOHNNYBOY29 [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 3:51 pm ] |
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Im second guessing myself now. I always do it unfortunately - always hinders me. The worst feeling in the world I think and its a routine that I need to get out of. I guess thats the difference between the successful lot and the unsuccessful lot. |
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| Author: | bp029 [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 3:59 pm ] |
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Quote: Im second guessing myself now. I always do it unfortunately - always hinders me.
Same here- I'm not sure how to break out of it. The other night a girl kept dancing right in front of me and I thought she just happened to be in that space. After about 20 minutes her friend ran around me and shoved me into her lol. I finally took the hint after that.
The worst feeling in the world I think and its a routine that I need to get out of. I guess thats the difference between the successful lot and the unsuccessful lot. |
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| Author: | JOHNNYBOY29 [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 4:10 pm ] |
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I think ALOT I think TOO much. I second guess what the girl is goin to say BEFORE I ask her out. I second guess what she is gonna say and how the conversation will go BEFORE it happens etc. Tryin to predict the future. The funny thing is the best successes I have had are where I didnt think. I was instinctive. and just do it. |
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| Author: | Sharp25 [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 4:38 pm ] |
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We've all been there. Use to play over a meeting/date and think to myself "I should have said this in that situation" or "I really missed that chance." I find it much better to act then apologize, than to 2nd guess. I recently kissed two friends when it felt right. One didn't go over and I apologized... no harm done. The other, we've slept together a couple times and still remain friends. |
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