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| Author: | Majishan [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 11:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | Friends with benefits |
Okay I'll make this short and sweet.. How can you have friends with benefits? She's a coworker.. Spent time with her couple of times.. I showed kino but sometimes I don't get a response back.. Sometimes I flirt and it feels like she disregards it.. I was upfront from the get go that I'm in a relationship.. Need response and/or ideas on how to handle current and future situations.. |
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| Author: | mi1ooo98 [ Wed Dec 07, 2011 1:29 am ] |
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Try not to focus on the IODs, just focus on any IOIs, it seems to increase your chances. Since you're in more of a positive mental state. How to have friend with benefits? All you have to do is make it a sexual relationship, and be honest with them, tell them that hanging out and having fun is all you're looking for at the moment, and you're happy being outside a relationship and not interested at this point in time. |
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| Author: | TattooToast [ Wed Dec 07, 2011 8:18 am ] |
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I used to fuck around with my former assistent manager, Like mi1ooo98 said, let her know ur looking for some fun at the moment. Good luck. |
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| Author: | Majishan [ Thu Dec 08, 2011 5:16 am ] |
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Thanks guys.. But I was wondering how would I go about letting her know I want to have a friends with benefits with her.. I mean I flirt to make it sexual.. N indirectly letting her know that I'm interested.. But I don't want to give her compliments on looks alone.. But I might have to go that route.. I tell her that she's interesting and that what makes me like hanging out with her.. The other day.. I ran the cube on her just to have that connection.. Then we I ran the roller coaster routine just to have sexual conversation and held her hand the whole time for kino.. I just want to make sure I play this card right.. I don't want to be in the LJBF zone.. N don't want to have a relationship with her either.. So how would you guys go about taking the steps? We hang out a couple of times before and she seems getting comfortable with me... |
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Thu Dec 08, 2011 5:43 am ] |
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Just fuck her!!! Seriously just concentrate on getting in her pants first and then cross the FWB/LTR bridge when you come to it. JUST FUCK HER ASAP The end. |
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| Author: | Majishan [ Thu Dec 15, 2011 5:51 am ] |
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I think that's the Idea.. I do wanna have sex with her.. But I guess my question is how do I go about that route.. How do I let her know that I want to be physical with her and not just saying it? What else can I do other than Kino escalation or how can I give out hints? I wanna keep the friendship since I think she's really an interesting person.. But I'm also physically attracted to her.. |
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| Author: | Marc [ Fri Dec 16, 2011 1:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friends with benefits |
Quote: Okay I'll make this short and sweet.. How can you have friends with benefits? She's a coworker.. Spent time with her couple of times.. I showed kino but sometimes I don't get a response back.. Sometimes I flirt and it feels like she disregards it.. I was upfront from the get go that I'm in a relationship..
Honest Advise - Don't do it . Since you already dont know what to do the chances of you messing it up are good, not a situation if you want to continue working there. And even if you get the girl as your F w/ B it would still mess up your working equation/relationship. Unless you dont plan to work there anymore/in the near future, Dont bother.
Need response and/or ideas on how to handle current and future situations.. |
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