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Author:  jcrane5 [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 6:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Girls and asking if they're fat
So I had an interaction earlier today where a girl asked me if I thought she was fat. Admittedly, I'm not the best when it comes to common sense. In fact, I'm the worst. So when she asks me if I thought she was fat. I said yes.

But I really don't like this question. I feel like it's as if you're baiting. You insecure about yourself and so you want to have someone validate you and boost your ego. Which is fine. That's legitimate. But then you're asking the other person to lie. So then you falsely boost your ego even though you know the other person is lying.

I don't know. I have more to say but I'll post more later. What are your guy's thoughts?

Also I know the answer is always supposed to be no. But I'm an honest kind of guy. I kind of just say what's on my mind without thinking first. It just upsets me is all.
Author:  guruman [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 7:00 pm ]
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I see what your saying, but you should still never tell any girl you think shes fat. It's pretty mean, just lie if you find yourself in the situation and be thankful that she is showing you her insecurities early enough for you to avoid getting involved with her.
Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 8:26 pm ]
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Pretend it's such an insignificant stupid question it doesn't deserve an answer. Because it doesn't, if she insists and answer just be like "pff, whatever, no" and move straight onto something else
Author:  darrryll [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 9:11 pm ]
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girl: do you think i'm fat?
darrryll: why do you ask that, do you think i'm fat?

turn there weapons against them
Author:  TheLoneWolf [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 9:16 pm ]
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Almost every kiss ass guy is gonna say, "No, you're beautiful"... It's placating. They are fishing for your approval, which once they have it, they lose attraction. Make them think they're not good enough for you.

I try to reserve all compliments towards targets until I'm sexually locked in.

But I might grab their tummy and say, "You can use some ab work" or "Lose the winter layer" and then I'll take their hand and put it on my stomach, (which is by no means, flat) and say, "You want an Adonis body like this, you gotta work for it..." and wink.

And I usually footnote it with, "And you're a little short too..."

I sometimes can't believe the things I say to women... And the more obnoxious/sarcastic (or C&F), the more they seek my approval and amplify attraction.

Now if it's your wife or long term GF, disregard, unless she's fat.
Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 9:22 pm ]
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I don't think you have to make them feel like shit about their body... But some of those responses aren't bad, wolf
Author:  TheLoneWolf [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 10:33 pm ]
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I don't think you have to make them feel like shit about their body... But some of those responses aren't bad, wolf
Agreed, I never try to make anyone intentionally feel bad... I just try to make them feel "not worthy". But just like anything else, it's not what you say, it's how you say it. I'm a sarcastic son of a bitch so it doesn't come off mean, it's more of a challenge statement. I'm challenging them to win my approval even though they were asking for it.

The other night I was with this beautiful Czech girl, model, who the more shit I gave her, the closer she sat to me. She looked at me at one point:
her: You know, I like compliments!
me: When you do something to deserve one, I'll consider it.

Later on she smiles at me:
me: you have a cute smile

She smiles huge, happy to have a compliment...
me: It's almost as cute as mine...

I made a huge smiley face and looked away from her Zoolander style.

- I just like to keep em on their toes. Never give them exactly what they want. Tease em with what they want and then pull it away.
Author:  MirinZyzz [ Mon Dec 05, 2011 12:33 am ]
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7/10 at best eyes too far apart, ellbows too pointy

misc standarts of course

would still smash tho
Author:  MirinZyzz [ Mon Dec 05, 2011 12:35 am ]
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too hairy/10

would still lick tho
Author:  TheLoneWolf [ Mon Dec 05, 2011 3:51 am ]
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If you're asking me for pics... Believe me, I would LOVE to. But I've been around enough forums to know, someone always knows someone and there are too many Captain Save O'ho's....

Pass on giving up anonymity and risking my IRL rep.
Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Mon Dec 05, 2011 5:08 am ]
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Well said, wolf. On both posts :D
Author:  Nadine [ Mon Dec 05, 2011 8:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls and asking if they're fat
Quote:
Also I know the answer is always supposed to be no. But I'm an honest kind of guy.
Don't say no, unless you're not interested. I say: "I will absolutely not talk about a woman's weight" in a playfull way, then continue flirting. Specifying 'woman' instead of 'girl' scores points too.
Once a chubby girl asked me and I felt the playfull thing wouldn't work, I told her I like curves on a woman and she should own them. Frame sex: "I would love some of those curves between my sheets" I don't remember what I said literally. She was turned on, but I didn't try to f-close because she wasn't my type.
Author:  pumpington [ Mon Dec 05, 2011 11:49 am ]
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My girl gives me this shit test all the time, and it is an obvious shit test cause her stomach is flat, if your girl is actually fat, probably best to handle this shit test with a redirect instead of the whole accept exaggerate route, anything that could make her feel hurt and break her positive emotional state will not be productive for you, here are some of the ways I have handled it, Most of them have been said with the subtext of I'm Just Kidding, in a really happy mood

''You're not fat..... YOU'RE HUGE''
''How can I answer that question, it is like a trap''
''Why would you think you're fat?''
''Here, Eat some fish, You want to look like a skeleton? then go on a diet'' (this was yesterday I had a bowl of fish in my hand at the time)
''You're so fat, you going to go throw up now?''
''You're the fattest skinny girl I have met''
''Lets go eat''
''My dad likes egg salad, and he loves to eat egg salad... (go into random story about my dad)''
''Sure I do, Fat with a PH''

and mostly I just ignore it and change the topic, but she gives me this exact same shit test almost every time we hang out and she is 48kgs, when I address the test with words, I am always in high energy happy mood, or I will just ignore it and change subject
Author:  jcrane5 [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 12:40 am ]
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Yah, I talked with my guy friends yesterday and they basically told me what you just told me to say. Right now all I can do is damage control.
Author:  jcrane5 [ Wed Dec 07, 2011 7:39 pm ]
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What I ended up sending was
"You asked me an opinion question I gave you my opinion. I am your friend. I did not mean to offend you."

She replied back
"I'm not mad. We're okay."

So it turned out okay. But the thing with this girl is she's kind of mean. Twice in the past I told her I don't like mean girls and she says "I'm a mean girl and I don't change myself for anyone." Which is legitimate but sometimes she's nice. However, yesterday in class she was just plain rude from the start when she opened her mouth to me. So I just said stop talking to me. And I don't really plan to ever talk to her again. I don't deserve to be treated like that so I won't accept it. That's all there is to it.
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