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| Author: | bartm [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 5:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | that hot girl in my acting class |
hi guys alright for those of you who dont remember my situation, here is a summary: there was this hot girl in my acting class. i like her a lot. i didnt have a scene partner and she told me she could be my partner. she said "is that ok?" since mystery's book says you have to be an asshole to hot girls, I said "well, I have no choice, do i?" then, for our rehearsal, I was one hour late because the bus came late. she got angry at me and said she doesnt want to do the scene with me. this was about 2 months ago. since then, things have been kind of awkward between us. we almost never talk, and when we talk, we pretend we are nice to each other but we both know we dont like each other very much. (i know i am contradicting myself, its a love/hate relationship i guess.) fast forward to today. I noticed that she was unlocking her bike, and i said "oh, you have a bike? can you give me a ride?" she says "ya, i cant afford a car..." i said "me neither" then as soon as i said "me neither" I did something weird. you know how you are standing next to someone and you put your arm around and reach their other shoulder? i did that and i told her "i'm sorry that i was an asshole to you before" she said what? i repeated what i said. she said "it's ok, i dont care.if you are an asshole, that's your problem" or something like that... i am kind of upset at myself for putting my hand around her shoulder because it felt very unnatural. hope it didnt feel creepy to her... just so you know, she is european and english is not her first language...just trying to give as much info as possible so you can help me better. so at this point i dont know what to do. there is only one class meeting left. i think i have pretty much messed up here. should i move on? should i try to be playful? ask her out? to be honest with you, i this case i really dont care about the possibility of rejection. |
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| Author: | Anorthodox [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 6:35 am ] |
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Hey. I am new at these forum but something similar to me happened. So let me tell you what I did. Lets get the facts straight. She let you think that she thinks you are an asshole (she knows you are not) ur bus was late man. It happens. I think what she is looking at is a way for you to apologise to her, and shes dissapointed for missing the class. Dont do that directly. In my case I told the girl in my salsa lessons " Hey listen me and Helen, Maria and Stephanie are going to this amusement park, I would like you to come with us, its going to be fun and besides that I want to talk to you about something" (never tell what you want to talk to her about, if she insists just say in a playful tone " hey you really are pushy", and then in a serious tone " no i would like to make it up to u because I messed up and I didnt show up" BAM! if she says "its okay I dont really mind," you say " well okay, but you are more than welcome to come " and just walk away. Then dont talk to her again she ll make the initial approach the next time. If she does not dont pay her any more attention, talk to other girls and as soonas she realises that you are a nice and cool guy she lll come and talk to you or she ll gibe indications that she wants you to talk to her. Just take it from there bro. |
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