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| Author: | zest24 [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 7:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Found girl on FB that I FORGOT to number close! Field report |
Been shooting myself in the foot over this since last night.... Anyway, we met at a club last night and I'm a social outgoing fun person so when I starting studying natural game like RSD (blueprint, rsd nation, and a bunch of youtube videos) a few weeks ago, It was easy for me to internalize. Im naturally a positive self reflective person and always love improving and learning. So I've banging this stuff into my head since and I feel its becoming real and genuine. So I was in a good state most of the night at the club and didn't let any of my blowouts affect me at all and just saw it as funny but my only downfall is that im inexperienced. I pulled and danced with a few girls and got like 2 numbers. And the furthest I got escalation wise was with a hb8 who I was REALLY attracted too ... I opened with something like "I gotta say youre real adorable and fun, lets dance!" and I had strong eye contact and a fun confident easy going vibe so I pulled her in and we danced for a few minutes. She then started pulling me to a quiet area near the stairs to talk. And I said something along of the lines like "woah where are we going, you're trying to seduce me aren't you" All of this happened while we kept close contact with our bodies, holding hands, etc. She even nibbled on my ear when I had her against the wall and I weakly kissed against her neck with my lips but for some reason I couldn't get the make out after 3 attempts. Everything moved way too fast for me to remember what I actually said. She even called me out saying "why are you so focused on the kiss" she then told me she had to go back to her friends and I managed to get a peck on the lips. I feel like I could've actually gotten so much further. I've been over analyzing what I did wrong. I'm thinking I didn't built enough rapport and was too outcome dependent. In hindsight I think it was basically me just trying to kiss her and failing. I even remember saying something like "if you dont kiss me ill walk away" and she said ok then I did but turned around after and said im kidding. I know she had a strong attraction for me but it was me who messed up. I think I tried to escalate way too fast. Not sure what even talked about but in reality it was like 3 minutes I was alone with her. I felt like I was rushing and I should've been more alert, aware and in the moment and actually enjoy whats going on as its happening and I missed that since I was FOCUSING so much on what to do next. I could've been more persistent since I feel like I could've actually gotten her to stay if I wanted too. I realized I also never asked for her number ... my game is so sloppy. Anyway heres the kicker. I FOUND her on FB and just requested her a few minutes ago, and I want to message her and see her again but I have NO idea what to say and I'm not sure if she even remembers me! |
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| Author: | whitetea [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 7:34 pm ] |
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mate apparently you did have rapport...but the trick is to make her want to kiss you, by building attraction, teasing, eye contact. now she may have just played you...she may not but you'd know when its time to kiss and it ain't in a corner when you're talking, specially after you "danced so close". if the kiss just doesnt happen "naturally" and you feel like doing it. just use mystery's one : "would you like to kiss me?" you'll know then... btw how did you "find her on fb" ? if she didn't give any info simply adding her may look creepy. |
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