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Author:  ThatCreepyGuy [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 11:16 am ]
Post subject:  Can't Smile
I've had 15 of my teeth broken when i was 10 and being too poor I had to get low quality fake teeth which lead me to being a super AFC and never smiled (strangely enough I've had two girlfriend even with that problem, a 7 and a 9)

now, being 20 I managed to pay to get some real-looking teeth on, but I can't smile at all my smiles show at most 4-6 teeth not a full blown smile like other people do/expect, and like i'd want to

what should I do?

now that everything is fixed, i have confidence, fit body and studying in some good university it's my chance to pick up the only part of my life which has been left behind
GIRLS

It will take me time to learn the whole PUA thing but that's just a matter of time/experience
The problem is..I really can't Kiss close any girls, kissing is cool but if she tries to get inside my month my fear makes me go blank and cool out

also, i can't dance :?
Author:  Snarg [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 2:32 pm ]
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I think you're mistaken. I don't know about everyone else, but I only show my top 6 teeth and zero bottom teeth when I smile. I think you're just insecure of the smile because you had so many broken ones before. Honestly, try practicing in front of the mirror a few times per day. It's probably just a matter of you getting used to smiling since you hid it for so long and feels awkward.
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 2:57 pm ]
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yah, not everybody smiles like they do in the toothpaste commercials
Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 10:09 pm ]
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She's not going to pay much attention once she has her tongue inside your mouth.

She's not going to be trying to feel your teeth, for the most part. I doubt she'll notice a thing.

I know i wouldn't in a situation if it were a chick
Author:  Shyler [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 2:36 pm ]
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It is said that females look to males teeth because it shows if you're healthy or not. This is some evolutionairy theory. Girls often say that they like a great smile and great teeth by guys.

I was insecure about my smile too. The evolutionary theory about teeth didnt make it easier for me.
Years ago, at a certain day, I was talking with my mother. I was a bit down. I said that I thought that I had an ugly smile and thus didn't dare to smile alot.
My mother answered that I should never be insecure about a smile, because a smile is the most beautiful thing that you can give. My mother said it to me with a great smile herself. I'll never forget it. This simple, ordinary wisdom, made me get over my insecurity in a second, and since then, I've always smiled like I realy mean it. I've never regret it.

Moral of the story: a real smile can never be ugly. Don't hide it.
Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 8:43 pm ]
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You can almost completely tell how healthy someone is just by looking at their teeth, however not if they've been knocked out. (obviously)
Author:  guruman [ Sun Dec 04, 2011 8:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can't Smile
Quote:
I've had 15 of my teeth broken when i was 10 and being too poor I had to get low quality fake teeth which lead me to being a super AFC and never smiled (strangely enough I've had two girlfriend even with that problem, a 7 and a 9)

now, being 20 I managed to pay to get some real-looking teeth on, but I can't smile at all my smiles show at most 4-6 teeth not a full blown smile like other people do/expect, and like i'd want to

what should I do?

now that everything is fixed, i have confidence, fit body and studying in some good university it's my chance to pick up the only part of my life which has been left behind
GIRLS

It will take me time to learn the whole PUA thing but that's just a matter of time/experience
The problem is..I really can't Kiss close any girls, kissing is cool but if she tries to get inside my month my fear makes me go blank and cool out

also, i can't dance :?
Ooh man this brings me back. I had a dentist phobia when I was a young man, and my teeth got kinda shitty. It definitely sucks trying to find confidence with girls when you feel like you can't smile.. Trust me I know!

Luckily as I matured I grew out of that phobia and have since gotten my teeth fixed.. that is the ideal solution for you too, try to get them fixed and take care of them. No doubt a good smile does wonders for your image and your self confidence. However, I think you are stressing a little too much. They are just teeth, and everyone smiles different.. I am sure you have mastered the "no teeth showing" smile, try looking in the mirror and practicing a smile that you can do that shows your good teeth and hides your bad ones. You can have a good genuine looking smile with just 4-5 of your top teeth on one side of your mouth if you want to.

Also, over the years of having good teeth, then some broken teeth, and now good teeth again, I have kissed many many girls.. and not a single one of them has ever noticed or said anything about my teeth. I understand the fear and it makes sense, but in my experience girls dont notice this when you make out with them.. Most girls dont kiss by licking your teeth, ya know? Just think about it. Either way, they dont notice or they dont care.. So start kissing girls yo
Author:  ubl1 [ Mon Dec 05, 2011 6:58 am ]
Post subject:  Smiles
Hi Thatcreepyguy.

Our faces are full of muscles, and just like our biceps, they can be grown. I would suggest smiling as much as you can while you are alone, and over time your 'smiling muscles' will develop hence making your smiles look more natural.

Hope that helps
Dave
Ultimate Body Language
Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Tue Dec 06, 2011 6:27 am ]
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I like those facts ubl1, i wasn't fully aware. I use to hate my smile, but over time I've learnt to love it
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