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Author:  Century100 [ Fri Dec 02, 2011 4:38 am ]
Post subject:  How to react. Girlfriend upset due to jealousy.
The other night I went out, and chatted to a group of 7 HB10's.
I was just making them laugh etc for fun, not wanting to kiss any or anything because I'm not single, but ended up getting a photo with them all crowded around me blowing kisses etc to the camera.

My girlfriend is now very upset about something...I'm not sure what, but it is to the degree where she has not eaten a thing all day. I just spoke to her on the phone.
She is going out tonight to see her favourite band, but didn't want to go because she feels so sad. THAT"S how bad this is.

Now I'm not sure if it's about the display picture, but I think it could be because when I asked
"Is it about the photo?"
She replied
"Baby, don't worry about it. I'll tell you when I see you next"

So I think that's what it could be...a little jealousy possibly, or maybe she feels I was being a dickhead.
How do I react to this?
Am I meant to apologise and delete the photo?
Or do I tell her I'm sorry but she has to realise how ridiculous she is being?
Or do I not apologise at all and tell her she can't control anything I do?

What is the best reaction to this? Keep in mind she IS my girlfriend, I'm not sarging her and we both love each other.

Thanks
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Dec 02, 2011 4:42 am ]
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What was your intention in taking the photo? If your girlfriend was standing right there would have still chatted up the 7 HB10's (no such thing as 7 10's in a group lol) and took the photo?

Could that be why she's upset, because you turn into mr social flirt when she isn't around?

Do you want her surrounded by 7 dudes all holding onto her tits and ass cheeks in her next photo?
Author:  Century100 [ Fri Dec 02, 2011 4:48 am ]
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Yeah she was not there
I was doing it because I hadn't gone out clubbing in months and really missed doing this sort of shit. Of course there was no intention to do anything with it, I just thought it would be hilarious because my friends have this image of me (sort of an inside joke) where they don't see me perform with females an entire evening, then suddenly find me with one randomly. At this particular time (when the photo was taken) I wasn't with my friends, so I thought it would be funny to be consistent with that reputation so that when it's uploaded to facebook they see and think "HOW DOES HE DO THAT!?" in a funny kind of way.
I don't know if you don't understand that, and don't mind if you don't haha, because it IS an inside joke among us, but yeah basically that's where the motivation came from.

ANYWAY - should I apologise for this?
Author:  EddieFews [ Fri Dec 02, 2011 4:53 am ]
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Quote:
Yeah she was not there
I was doing it because I hadn't gone out clubbing in months and really missed doing this sort of shit. Of course there was no intention to do anything with it, I just thought it would be hilarious because my friends have this image of me (sort of an inside joke) where they don't see me perform with females an entire evening, then suddenly find me with one randomly. At this particular time (when the photo was taken) I wasn't with my friends, so I thought it would be funny to be consistent with that reputation so that when it's uploaded to facebook they see and think "HOW DOES HE DO THAT!?" in a funny kind of way.
I don't know if you don't understand that, and don't mind if you don't haha, because it IS an inside joke among us, but yeah basically that's where the motivation came from.

ANYWAY - should I apologise for this?
Who cares if I understand that, does your girlfriend understand that? And is it worth and inside joke to have your girlfriend cheat on you? Because thats exactly what she'll do if she starts to feel like this is the type of guy you are.

And no, don't apologize.. Just talk about it in a confident nonchalant way.

" some girls just asked me to take a picture with them, its no big deal"

And leave it at that.. Act like its no big deal and she will to.
Author:  Century100 [ Fri Dec 02, 2011 6:08 am ]
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alright cool

Thanks man
Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Fri Dec 02, 2011 8:58 am ]
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Completely agree with Fuze, you could easily make this such a big deal that she'd end the relationship over it. Or you could make it so minor that it doesn't even need to be thought about ever again
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Fri Dec 02, 2011 9:44 am ]
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7 - HB10's bwahahaha

musta been a victoria secret shoot that night. hmm

anyway...

how did your girlfriend see that picture?

did you post it on your facebook or something?

if so, that would be an absolutely fucking retarded thing to do.
Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Fri Dec 02, 2011 9:48 am ]
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Yeah, you have to realize that the community doesn't generally give out HB10s unless they're dead set perfect. Which is how often? Anyway, everyone has a different rating system, not that it's that important. But i agree with Mack, use common sense.
Author:  Don Draper [ Fri Dec 02, 2011 12:56 pm ]
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It all comes down to ..what is more important?

An "image" which your friends have of you, never mind the fact that they laugh about it. And the fact that you had to be so insecure that you went and "proved a point" about it, by not only getting your photo clicked with a bunch of women who are (presumably) more attractive than your current girlfriend but you went one step ahead and uploaded it on your facebook account.

OR

A relationship which you find yourself in, because honestly I cannot see it being as important to you.

It's obvious you value your ego more than your social relationships. And the shocker is that it's not even surprising if you consider something like.. Maslow's Heirarchy of Needs theory. Ego is a bigger need than Love.

But, the major flaw of the theory is that some people have a different heirarchy than others. So, are you one of the many or one of the few?

What is MOST important to you?

Ask yourself this and you will understand not only her behavior but yours as well, in this situation ,as in general.

Regards,

Luke
Author:  Reo [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 1:48 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to react. Girlfriend upset due to jealousy.
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The other night I went out, and chatted to a group of 7 HB10's.
Lies!!


And that was very stupid you don't post those kinds of pics with other women to your facebook, myspace or whatever if you have a girlfriend. Keep pics like that to yourself. You asked for it.

Do you have any chance in the near future of screwing any of those so called HB10's whom i assume look way better than your girlfriend.. Did you kiss any of them. Do you have any of their numbers? All you had was pleasant conversation and got picture to beat off too in your spare time. So pretty much all you really got out of it is an angry girlfriend.
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 2:43 am ]
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pissed my girlfriend off once, with a picture of seven EXTREMELY HOT strippers (hot even with the lights on types) smashing their titties into my face and one riding my lap on stage on my 21st birthday.
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