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| Author: | april6e [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 3:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Can someone explain in detail what they do during attract? |
For example, let me set up a very common situation. You have a female acquaintance who you aren't really close friends with (social circle); you just are on good terms with and just met thus it's almost like a number off a cold approach. What would you guys do (if you don't see her in person) from this point until getting her first date? I know some of you are just good conversationalists and can handle attracting and getting a woman on a date just naturally winging it. So lets also assume you have 7 days to get her into bed. You have no time for icing on the cake. Is there a particular structure you can point out in your own personal game that you use to get her from "just got the number/facebook" to Day 2? |
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| Author: | watusippin? [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 3:14 am ] |
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I read that like 7 times and it still doesnt make sense... But, I think you mean that you got a girls # from FB and you want to know where to go from there? If it were me then I would just hit her up randomly, prob a couple days after and say "wattup?". Build some comfort first. Then next tim invite her out somewhere. "Hey I am going to grab a bite to eat later, you should come join me" Edit: pretty drunk SPAM, going to try this new line my friend told me and I aint doin it anywhere near sober...... So take what I have said with that in mind. Although I can still capitalize shit so I am not that drunk... |
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| Author: | mi1ooo98 [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 3:17 am ] |
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Step 1: getting face/number Step 2:Text her once or twice to let her know it's you. RING her and organizing a date and time |
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| Author: | april6e [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 3:24 am ] |
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That seems....too minimalistic. Can you explain it better detail? What happens between "call her" and "set up a date"? |
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| Author: | mi1ooo98 [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 3:57 am ] |
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You call her to set up the date.. I don't know how complex of an answer you're looking for. Do you mean what do you say on the phone? "hey it's, xxxxxxxxx" is a good start. Then i'd just go straight to asking her if she wants to meet up with you, you shouldn't have to do anymore work. It's suppose to be this easy, no tricks. |
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| Author: | Fiddle [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 3:59 am ] |
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it's a touchy subject, you'll need to read books if you want a good answer. |
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| Author: | april6e [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 4:14 am ] |
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Quote: I read that like 7 times and it still doesnt make sense...
Yeah, I was embarrassed even before pressing the post button. Lemme try this again..."Lets say you have a social circle friend you want to go on a Day 2 with, which is quite a common scenario in college. How would you get her on a Day 2, assuming you could not see her beforehand, and you only have 7 days to lay her? Step by step". |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 7:04 am ] |
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Push things really - and I mean really - fast. Use SNL techniques, fast escalation. 60YOC-stuff. As soon as you feel interested start pushing it. That's your best shot. (Btw this is all things to-do in face-to-face communication. If that's not possible I wouldn't know what to do, I hate text game. I'll only pull out my phone to set a meet. But there are some excellent text gamers on this forum) |
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| Author: | mi1ooo98 [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 7:08 am ] |
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People will say not to push because it comes across as being too needy, but in most situations, i disagree. Conveying interest comes across as real, it comes across as being a man. But you also want to be careful with how hard you're pushing, you're pushing to be with her and have a mutually, fun, sexual experience. Not pushing so hard that you come across as sexually frustrated and needy. You're pushing, no more than you should have to but. |
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