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Author:  Shady0125 [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 12:09 am ]
Post subject:  How do you Demonstrate Higher Value (DHV)?
I'm reading the venusian artists handbook 2nd edition and i am just starting chapter 5 (Female to male interest) mystery keeps talking about DHVing but i don't see anything on how to DHV. He was talking about using False time contraints and disinterested body language and later on when i was reading the review it said "But a venusian artist can coax a woman into lowering her shield by conveying disinterest while demonstrating value." Is disinterest a DHV?
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 12:15 am ]
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DHVing is basically not qualifying for her and having the willingness to walk away. Your primary focus should be escalating and being seductive/sexual threat. Also done by avoiding to break rapport with her when she baits you into it.

I was with a friend one time and said hi to this one girl I knew for a few weeks. She fucked up and I didn't like her anymore, moved on to another girl (well, had other girls meanwhile but you get my drift). Anyways, she asked me, "How come your friend is dressed nicer than you?" I said, "Because he has more style than me. :)" She laughed and I laughed too and then she told my friend in a serious tone, "I like your style." In other words, you refrain from dealing with childish bull.
Author:  Kieran Black [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 12:39 am ]
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Image and popularity my friend.

Dress to impress and make friends with the right people, don't hang out with nerds or men with no sense of style or social intelligence.

Get to know the bouncers and bartenders at your local venue, if possible ask them their names and greet them as such when you see them, building rapport with the staff will always make you seem like a somebody and anyone normal and cool can do it, most just don't because they think the staff wont be interested in making friends with patrons but that's not true. Take it from me I worked as a bartender for years.

Don't brag about your accomplishments but rather let slip a couple of your best perks without acting like it is a big deal, this will make girls assume that there are loads of cool things about you because you are modest rather than only the select few you choose to brag to them about.

For example.

Her: So what do you do for a living?
Him: Well when I'm not in the rockies training for tournaments, I work at the local bank as a cashier, it's an interesting day job, I enjoy it.

Being a bank cashier is as boring as hell but by phrasing the answer to include something seemingly really cool but 'no big deal' to you, she is likely to think that you have all sorts of other awesome attributes which you also consider to be 'no big deal' and thus you are an awesome person.

I hope this helped.
Author:  TheLoneWolf [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 3:47 am ]
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I dhv by disqualifying myself.

me: You should find yourself a guy with a nice head of hair (I'm streamlined...)

By disqualifying myself, I'm doing the opposite of what most guys do which is trying to prove why there a great catch. I create intrigue by falsely telling them they are higher value than me, which actually demonstrates I'm higher value than them.

or I disqualify her:

me: We would have made a really cute couple if you weren't xxxxxxx

Now here's the thing... When I disqualify them, I usually try to find something that would usually insult them... Possibly even sexist or borderline racist... But I say it with a smile. They know I'm kidding...

"Oh my god, you are so hot... But you're Puerto Rican... I hate Puerto Ricans..."
There almost so shocked that I would say something like that, they instantly know I'm kidding and they hit me and say, "Shut Up..." Then they spend the rest of the night telling me how funny I am.
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