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Author:  bartm [ Wed Nov 30, 2011 11:06 pm ]
Post subject:  she mentions "my boyfriedn", so is it over?

this girl that is in my acting class mentioned her boyfriend.
she is very friendly with me and laughs at all my silly jokes. i thought i had a chance.
but during our rehearsals, i asked about her necklace and she said "my boyfriend bought it for me"

i asked about her bracelet, "my boyfriend's grandmother gave it to me"
so does this mean it's over?
can i still hug her and tell her i miss her when i dont see her? i really like her as a person.

Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Wed Nov 30, 2011 11:11 pm ]
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Well you're going to have to prove to her that you're better than her boyfriend for her. If you want anything out of her, if not. It won't go anywhere

Author:  Chris2k10 [ Wed Nov 30, 2011 11:58 pm ]
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Well you're going to have to prove to her that you're better than her boyfriend for her. If you want anything out of her, if not. It won't go anywhere
I disagree. Whatever you do, never try to prove you're better than her boyfriend. She doesn't care whose better. She wants it ALL, a provider and a lover. Offer her sex with no strings attached. I love these situations because if you still escalate, it's even more balls in their eyes.

Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 2:20 am ]
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Chris, you took what i said too literally, i'm not saying shove in her face that you're better. I'm just saying, be the better option. You're not trying to prove anything to her.
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She wants it ALL, a provider and a lover. Offer her sex with no strings attached.
Exactly, do this, it demonstrates that you're a better current option for her. I don't see what we're disagreeing on.

Author:  watusippin? [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 2:29 am ]
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Id say that if she mentions it pretty early on into a conversation then she has serious feelings for the guy, or is just letting you know nicely that she isnt interested.

I've gamed girls for hours only to find out from one of her friends or the girl herself that she has a BF. Its usually "i have a BF.. BUT blah blah blah".

If the girl doesnt mention she has a BF after I make my intentions clear early on then I'll consider it free game. Then I just bust out the BFdestoryer material.

Author:  bartm [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 7:00 am ]
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hi guys
what would be something cool that i could say?
can i say "tell your boyfriend he is a lucky bastard?"

Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Thu Dec 01, 2011 7:13 am ]
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Personally i wouldn't say that. It's focusing on the boyfriend, focus on her, that's who you want, you don't want to bring to her attention she has a boyfriend, but you can bring to her attention that you're into her. I've been in a similar situation to this a few times, and i just act oblivious to the fact that the girl has a boyfriend, it's the girls problem, not yours. Focus your energy into getting what you want.

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