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| Author: | puacurly [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 1:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | What's she really interested in.. |
Backstory: use to talk to this hb8 a couple years ago, never f-closed. She ended things with me because she was 'busy' hahah. We stay in light communication, but everytime I run into her drunk she gets weird. She'll tell me how great of a guy I am and then turn around and call me an asshole. She tells me that she misses me and I know her better then most people. I ran into her not that long ago at a party. She started on the same path she always does, followed by hand holding and kissing. I left for awhile, came back and she was definitely not about an f-close. I said fuck it and started gaming other girls. When she left she hugged me and whispered "I love you" very seriously in my ear. We've never said that before. Honestly, I'm still open for an F-close; whatre my chances? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 1:45 pm ] |
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guess what the best way to find out is? ill give you a hint, asking a bunch of guys on an internet forum is not the best way but if you need some motivation to do what you know you need to do to find out then, SHE IS SOOO DOWN MAN, YOUR CHANCES ARE 100% GO FOR IT |
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| Author: | puacurly [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 1:51 pm ] |
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I just wanna f-close, nothing else attached. When a girl starts telling me they love me, it changes things. What's your opinion on if she's going to get clingy or not. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 1:56 pm ] |
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Quote: I just wanna f-close, nothing else attached.
you can not properly guage or control a persons feeling/actions, everyone is different, most people are not jedi mind wizards that can predict the future like sages, the best you can do is control your own actions, you and her are both seperate from each other and are not connected beyond social constraints, how she acts, what she does, and why she does those things should all be taken into account, but what is more important is, what do you want, why do you want that, and how do you go about achieving that goal, put your thoughts into action and try to reach your goals until you have either succeeded or failed, once an outcome has been reached reflect on the process and try to improve it
When a girl starts telling me they love me, it changes things. What's your opinion on if she's going to get clingy or not. |
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| Author: | puacurly [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 2:13 pm ] |
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I see what your saying, I'm basically asking you to write a book report from just one chapter. I've gained my own hypothesis from it and realized my overall goal won't be achieved smoothly. My goal was to kill the sexual tension and never think about it again. On the other hand she views me as her first relationship, has some crazy idea that we know each other SOOO well and thinks she has me pinned as a nice guy underneath all the scum. Casual sex to her would break my image in her head, which she holds somewhat dearly because some "unique" connection we have, or whatever. The only way to pull it smoothly is to re-escalate back to 'old times' then switch to a very dominant asshole from after I respark her attraction and comfort. Escalate till sex and be left with a clingy, confused girl by my side. Glad I thought that through! |
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