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| Author: | Bodega [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 11:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Is confronting a girl deemed as 'AFC', in this case? |
I met a girl on Friday night, on a night out.. she's a student. I got with her (just kissing) on the dancefloor. I wanted to go back with her, but she rejected me sort of, but insisted I had her number.. which is fair enough. I went around her room (she's in uni halls), last night.. we kissed again, and one thing led to another - I f-closed her. She's actually really nice, and her body is quality, we text like all the time at the minute. The annoying thing is, one of my friends at the same Uni, who is also female, lives in the block next to her, and this morning she told me that she had heard stuff about the girl I was meeting up with.. she said the following: 'Yeah my friend was telling me (because he lives in the flat next to her and his room backs on to hers) and he said she brings guys back 24 7 and shags them and that he can never get any sleep because she's always shagging randoms and she goes for the "pull it out" method and never uses contraception i dunno if she tells guys she does but she doesn't But that's only what i've heard, can't take everything as truth from others ' Now, personally, I don't believe this, as she's told me that before me she'd only slept with 5 guys. Plus, if she was a slag, surely she'd of taken me back with her on Friday? I don't see a relationship coming from this, especially as she's a student.. but I want to know whether you think I should confront her about it or not? Is it my place to do so? Does it matter if she is, or if she isn't a proper slag? It's bad that I care if she is, I suppose, but I just want to know if she's a proper liar! Also, this girl who told me about this rumour, is definitely just a friend, we don't have feelings for each other, and i'm 100% sure of that. PS - I did wrap up! |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 11:54 am ] |
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what is there to "confront" her about? she is not your girlfriend. she has not made (nor break) any commitments to you, right? |
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| Author: | Bodega [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 12:01 pm ] |
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This is true Mack, i'm not disputing that. I just don't want a girl lying to be about how innocent she is, or what have you, if she is shagging anything that moves.. it's not the sort of girl that I want to be seeing. That's why i'm asking whether it's worth getting her views on what the girl's told me. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 12:05 pm ] |
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lol like mac said... who are you to her?? Just some guy she slept when.. And this seemed like an easy lay to me so it wouldn't surprise me if that rumors true? 5 guys? and you met her on the dance floor.. I know your are not that naive ALso no ammount of confronting will ever ever make a girl admit to being a whore... Thats just ridiculas.. A girls going to defend her purity to the death. Especially against someone like you that cares about it so much. |
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| Author: | Nadine [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 12:07 pm ] |
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It is her business and rumours start easily, especially when one liberated girl lives in a chick building. I wouldn't confront her. |
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| Author: | Nadine [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 12:07 pm ] |
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Agree with Fuze too. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 12:43 pm ] |
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ok here is the thing, if you like her, you like her, if you don't, you don't, wtf does it matter to you how many guys she gets with when she is single? she is not dating you, it should be none of your concern, this is like saying a single guy that trys to get with lots of girls is damaged goods, it's just not true, this in it's self is no indicator if she cheats, and has nothing to do with her as a person, you either like her or you don't, most girls get dick, some are just better at hiding it then others, also girls can get jealous fairly easily and make shit up, or who knows maybe it is 100% true, in the end, who even cares? why do you? |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 2:07 pm ] |
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Quote: This is true Mack, i'm not disputing that. All you are going to do is create unneeded drama over something stupid. Who the hell cares if she slept with 5 or 50? Why does it matter to you? If you don't like what you hear delete her number and move on to the next girl.
I just don't want a girl lying to be about how innocent she is, or what have you, if she is shagging anything that moves.. it's not the sort of girl that I want to be seeing. That's why i'm asking whether it's worth getting her views on what the girl's told me. |
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| Author: | JACKAL RONIN J000 [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 2:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | HI |
If the girl is lying. U should have the skill set to be able to tell by lie detection. You should not be hurting her feelings by questioning her when she has been nice to you. The girl who told u this may be a friend but jealousy is most likely a factor. Girls are always jealous of girls who sleep around because it lowers the value of the girls who do not sleep around. Besides the girls who do not sleep around much possibly envy the confidence that this girl has. She is possibly needy and does not have the skill set to keep a bf. Jealousy is normal everyone has it. Its how we deal with it that matters. |
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| Author: | Herne [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 2:20 pm ] |
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All women lie about this subject anyway--ive had about 30 ONS in the past 2 years and not one of them had'' ever done that before'' ''I dont normally do this'' ''im not really this forward'' bla bla....this is so predictable now id actually be more impressed with one who was honest enough to say '' yeah hey i pick up a different guy every wedensday night and have sex with him and then never return any of their calls'' ''yeah i am the type of girl you think i am'' |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 2:23 pm ] |
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next time you hook up just say "um, i'd rather go to my place, than shag on your previously-cum-soaked bed. thanks" and see if she look shocked or not. foolproof. |
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| Author: | Herne [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 2:24 pm ] |
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| Author: | PokerSlot [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 4:46 pm ] |
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Definitely a friend or not... she's female, and females are born with jealousy. I've seen this before where a female friend will tell you all type of things about another women to keep you away from her. Maybe you friend is "just a friend" to you... BUT she may have crossed paths with the chick you banged in a negative way and "just doesn't like her...?" And obv I agree with everybody else on the drama thing. Don't bring it up, and why do you care if you're not her bf? |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Sat Dec 03, 2011 6:18 pm ] |
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Quote: "All you are going to do is create unneeded drama over something stupid."
This is very likely but true, but that could be a good thingAs Roosh V says "Anger is either a huge turn-off or strong aphrodisiac, depending on when and how you show it." and some say the best time to show anger is when she least expects it. when she does something that makes you mad, first lull her into a false sense of serenity with a low-key response, then gradually build to a controlled outburst of anger. her loins will quiver. If your mad about something its always good to get it off your chest as long as you don't come off as a chump. The reason most experienced guys dont advise AFC's to anger is they pull it off wrong, you need to make sure you use it in the right way as in drawing a boundary based on non-needy caring and respecting yourself. Not big baby rage in which she asks "Are you mad bro?" |
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