PUA Forum :: Girl completely stops talking to me....WTF

I've been talking to this girl for 2 months. We have texted everyday and just talk about everything and anything. I basically found out 2 weeks ago (a little bit after thanksgiving break) that she likes
Me. I can just tell, she's given me so many iois it's ridiculous. So over the break we still text and she's asking me things like of I miss her and hinted at cuddling.

This is where it gets fuzzy. I have to work on black Friday (12am-2pm) after the course
Of that she never talked to me. We follow each other on twitter and the only thing I might have even said was that I "met two lovely ladies" and one gave me their number.

Ever since that she has basically stopped talking to me. It's just weird because she would usually always text me everyday and sometimes 2-3 times if I didn't respond.

What do I do? Part of me wants to text her and ask what's wrong but then other half wars to give her time and make hEr come back to me. Who knows, it could be some other reason.

Any help? Thanks guys.

Author:	Icyunvm [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 8:43 pm ]
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I've been talking to this girl for 2 months. We have texted everyday and just talk about everything and anything. I basically found out 2 weeks ago (a little bit after thanksgiving break) that she likes Me. I can just tell, she's given me so many iois it's ridiculous. So over the break we still text and she's asking me things like of I miss her and hinted at cuddling. This is where it gets fuzzy. I have to work on black Friday (12am-2pm) after the course Of that she never talked to me. We follow each other on twitter and the only thing I might have even said was that I "met two lovely ladies" and one gave me their number. Ever since that she has basically stopped talking to me. It's just weird because she would usually always text me everyday and sometimes 2-3 times if I didn't respond. What do I do? Part of me wants to text her and ask what's wrong but then other half wars to give her time and make hEr come back to me. Who knows, it could be some other reason. Any help? Thanks guys.

Author:	mi1ooo98 [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 8:45 pm ]
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Not much you can do man, if she's going to react that badly over something that small, she's not worth the effort. That is at least the way i'd look at it. On the other hand she could be waiting for you to kiss her arse.

Author:	Txacoli [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 8:48 pm ]
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She's probably pouting because she thought you were into her as much as she is into you. Just send her a sweet message. Don't ask what you did wrong or anything like that, just something simple like: I've heard this song on the radio and it made me think of you. You get the idea. And start escalating with her, no more infinite texting, she's into you, get it while it's hot.

Author:	Brian Bond [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 9:26 pm ]
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Quote: She's probably pouting because she thought you were into her as much as she is into you. Just send her a sweet message. Don't ask what you did wrong or anything like that, just something simple like: I've heard this song on the radio and it made me think of you. You get the idea. And start escalating with her, no more infinite texting, she's into you, get it while it's hot. thats close to what i would suggest. I realy dont understand why you would tell her that you got some girls number. Just txt her and tell her "lets meet up, i wanna see you!". Come on, you know she is into you, no need for jealousy games dude! Even if it is the truth, no need for that. Idk if you are looking for a girlfriend or multiple ralationships, but let me tell you, multiple relationships will only work if you show each girl that she is better than the other one. Most girls im seeing know im seeing other girls, but i dont talk about them unless they ask, and i still keep it short. No need for those childish games! Im there to make them feel good, and when im with 1, i make her feel like im all hers.

Author:	detox75 [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 9:38 pm ]
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let me ask a stupid question, why have you not hooked up with this chick a long time ago? This relationship sounds like it headed for angst and EMO disaster no matter what TBH.

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Author:	Icyunvm [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 9:59 pm ]
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I didn't specifically tell her. I just posted it on twitter. I feel like I shouldn't have to censor my social life to please her. If it happened, it happened. I wasn't trying to make her jealous. As far as why we haven't hooked up, I don't really know what I want. She will be transferring school in 2 months and we only have 3 weeks of school left.

Author:	kasabi [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 10:10 pm ]
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1. Call her. 2. Chat about thanksgiving. 3. Chat about some fun thing going on this weekend. 4. Ask her to join you. Follow ^these steps. Don't improvise.

Author:	Mack 2.0 [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 10:56 pm ]
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agree with kasabi, as per usual... also, maybe i'm dense (well actually i AM, but anyway)... what exactly is the point of posting something like that on twitter in the first place? it would never even occur to me to post something like that... for a couple of reasons. first, i don't like spreading my business around like that. i only post shit of importance, not the fact that i met ladies, lol. and second, it does kind of come off as an obvious attempt to generate jealousy. generating jealousy = good, to an extent intentionally and obviously attempting to generate jealousy = super-duper lame

Author:	EddieFews [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 12:13 am ]
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Quote: I've been talking to this girl for 2 months. We have texted everyday and just talk about everything and anything. I basically found out 2 weeks ago (a little bit after thanksgiving break) that she likes Me. I can just tell, she's given me so many iois it's ridiculous. So over the break we still text and she's asking me things like of I miss her and hinted at cuddling. This is where it gets fuzzy. I have to work on black Friday (12am-2pm) after the course Of that she never talked to me. We follow each other on twitter and the only thing I might have even said was that I "met two lovely ladies" and one gave me their number. Ever since that she has basically stopped talking to me. It's just weird because she would usually always text me everyday and sometimes 2-3 times if I didn't respond. What do I do? Part of me wants to text her and ask what's wrong but then other half wars to give her time and make hEr come back to me. Who knows, it could be some other reason. Any help? Thanks guys. Option A: shes just pulling back dude, because shes probably always the one initiating.. Also your moving wayy to slow.. 2 months? she should be doing your laundry in 2 months.. Option B: She met another guy who isn't taking things so slow.

Author:	mi1ooo98 [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 12:20 am ]
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Oh yeah, what Fuze said. What are you doing just texting her if you're interested.

Author:	Fearless6868 [ Tue Nov 29, 2011 1:36 am ]
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You answered your question within your question. You screwed up. two months? damn, that should of been closed by now. Thats a long time to be talking to a girl. If you're not willing to make the move and assume shes going to do it, you're in over your head. Given that you have said she's interested in you, that twitter comment probably didn't confirm your interest in her. Thats probably where things turned around. after a long period of time, you're bound to run out of things to say. Thats all. Keep hunting, goodluck.

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