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Author:  bobbytjones [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 2:30 am ]
Post subject:  First F-Close. What Should My Next Step Be?
I had my first fuck close 2 nights go. I'm 28 and it was with a fine 19 year old chick.

Now what? I'm from the area she lives in but live 15 hours away currently and wanna turn it into a hookup when I'm home.

I stayed the whole night and we fooled around the next morning but didn't fuck because I didn't have another condom, she did say "to bad you don't have another condom" and "to bad I have to work or I'd make you some food".

So she enjoyed and neither of us were even that drunk. Lots of convo the morning after so the familiarity is there.

Then I checked out quick and as leaving said "what do you wanna do, this can be a one time thing or you wanna give me your number?" She said "you can have my number". Then I typed it in and before I saved I said "you sure? I'm cool with whatever." and she said yes that she was sure.

It's been about 48 hours. What should my next approach be to not fuck this up, since it is in fact my first F-Close. I got married young so I'm just getting in the game, that's why its my first F-close.
Author:  detox75 [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 7:32 am ]
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When you have sex with a girl you normally dont have to game her much as she cashed in her biggest chip. I would text here tomorrow and set up a meeting for drinks at your convenience. Plan to have sex with her after a couple of drinks, and act like you expect that and you have done this kidn of thing before, dont be weired or she will be weird. She should readily agree without having to employ much game.

and no more "what do you wanna do?" type stuff. lead her.
Author:  bobbytjones [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 2:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Ok, so now what?
I texted her last night. 3 days after the fclose. it went as follows.

Me: Hey *name*. Its Bobby from last night. Will you please just stop it.
Her: haha what's up dude stop what?!
Me: Stop texting me. you hate texting :-) (she told me the other night she hates texting)
Her: haha yeahh...unless it's you! what are you gettin into tonight?
Me: Just having a few drinks with some friends. You causing some trouble tonight?

I thought after her 2nd text I was in but then never heard back from her. What should my next move be now? She's clearly still interested but I don't wanna over pursue, look needy. I'm only in town for a few more days and then I'm out for a couple weeks and then back again for 2 weeks.
Author:  EddieFews [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 5:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Ok, so now what?
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I texted her last night. 3 days after the fclose. it went as follows.

Me: Hey *name*. Its Bobby from last night. Will you please just stop it.
Her: haha what's up dude stop what?!
Me: Stop texting me. you hate texting :-) (she told me the other night she hates texting)
Her: haha yeahh...unless it's you! what are you gettin into tonight?
Me: Just having a few drinks with some friends. You causing some trouble tonight?

I thought after her 2nd text I was in but then never heard back from her. What should my next move be now? She's clearly still interested but I don't wanna over pursue, look needy. I'm only in town for a few more days and then I'm out for a couple weeks and then back again for 2 weeks.
call her.. Tell to hook up with you again tonight. You'e fucked her already, your in the green zone. Theres very little you can do wrong.. Call her
Author:  neyos [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 6:54 pm ]
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whathever you do, you might regret it later in life.

life is short and you can only make so many mistakes........
call her! telll her you want to marry her , make babies, get a house with a juicy mortgage and ...
she'll probably dump you for that.....
Author:  EddieFews [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 6:57 pm ]
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Quote:
whathever you do, you might regret it later in life.

life is short and you can only make so many mistakes........
call her! telll her you want to marry her , make babies, get a house with a juicy mortgage and ...
she'll probably dump you for that.....
huh?

What was the purpose/point of your entire post?
Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 8:53 pm ]
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whathever you do, you might regret it later in life.

life is short and you can only make so many mistakes........
call her! telll her you want to marry her , make babies, get a house with a juicy mortgage and ...
she'll probably dump you for that.....
Um. What the hell :roll: -head shakes-
Author:  bobbytjones [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 9:08 pm ]
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What would you all say when you call/text?

I'm confused because it seemed to be totally in the bag and then she just didn't respond to my last text last night. F-in women.

The Main objective is to play my cards right for having an easy hookup with an hb8 (hb9 for me because she really fits my usual taste) for the 2-3 weeks I'll be in town next moth.
Author:  EddieFews [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 9:13 pm ]
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Quote:
What would you all say when you call/text?

I'm confused because it seemed to be totally in the bag and then she just didn't respond to my last text last night. F-in women.

The Main objective is to play my cards right for having an easy hookup with and hb7 for the 2-3 weeks I'll be in town next moth.
What do you say when you call!?? " Hey whats up!" ?????

Go with it, ask her what shes doing later.. Tell her your pickin her up tonight.
Author:  neyos [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 9:13 pm ]
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:shock: that was just to scare him from doing the same mistake again.
the PUA instruction manual advises to stay honest while working on yer own playboy mansion full of MLTRs
Author:  mi1ooo98 [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 11:41 pm ]
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What fuze said
Author:  detox75 [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 1:03 am ]
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also consider she could be just a "party girl" and not interested in a relationship with you. This is less common but not unheard of with young girls, divorcees, and cougars.

With "party girls" your best bet is just being very good in bed, and thus giving them a reason to want to "hang out" again.
Author:  bobbytjones [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 3:56 am ]
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im not interested in a relationship either. Just wanted to try and make this a hookup buddy.
Author:  bobbytjones [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 6:01 pm ]
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texted this girl again last night, just once... no response.

anybody wanna point out how I f*cked this shit up?

Any tips to get it right? She was so keen the morning after the f-close and then flirty in that one text response 3 days after but then nothing.

I don't want a relationship more than a hookup friend at the most, but there was something about this girl, her craziness, her body, etc... I've gotta f*ck her at least 1 more time. It's driving me crazy, i really just need to f*ck her once more.

Any suggestions on what I should do now to fix this junk? f*ck!
Author:  neyos [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 6:13 pm ]
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as PUA you're not supposed to give a darn about her..dude, you're backsliding..the way you sound, I wouldn't be surprised if she'll be your wife in the end..
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