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Author:  juice man [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 8:40 pm ]
Post subject:  clubs vs parties
so ive been gaming recently at the club and at house parties(college)

what i want to ask from several of the more experienced members here is do you guys go about gaming differenlty at house partites than at clubs?

for example

in the club say i get a k close or number close, usually i eject and change venue and try to build rapport thru Fb but mostly txt

at a house party i feel as its a little different like should i wait till i leave to get a number close? or when the oppourtunity arises so i introduce an exchange of contact info... it gets a little akward and the feeling gets like "now what" but i try to play a game with her or w/e

ALSO
when approaching a set at a house party i think its a bit different because EVERYONE sees you get blown out or w/e. at the club the crowd is always changing ppl come in ppl come out. so it wont blow your social proof terribly unless girls that have been eyeing you and have been there entire time.

so what do you guys recomend in gaming at house parties and clubs?
ANY HELP would be greatly appreciated
im writinting this thread so we can exchange techniques and experiences to see what works and wat doesnt.
Author:  detox75 [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 7:48 am ]
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I think partys are much easier ground then clubs for pick up.

I lot of your issues could resolve themselves by isolating the chicks after you attract them so they are off the radar for any social proof issues. As far as crashing and burning by a failed pick up attempt this is usually due to escalating before the chicks has shown any attraction. If you cant hook a chick then be experienced enough to recognize it and move on. Done smoothly this in no way looks like you have been rejected, it just looks like you guys have ended a conversation.
Author:  skills360 [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 5:36 pm ]
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juice man you are 100% correct the club has the advantage of people constantly changing, and bigger venue in most cases so you can go to other parts of the club or another room in the club if you get blown out, the key is to find a system were if you get blown out the least exposure, i get rejected, no blown out...
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 5:49 pm ]
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As opposed to explaining this in my own words, I'm just going to post 60's thoughts on it from his own material. Clubs..parties..they all still take place at night.

Night Game Ain’t Shit
Night game gets the award for the biggest joke. It’s like girls give you a harder time
about having the confidence to approach them in person then if you just contacted them
online.
The same guy who they diss at the bar with their girlfriends is the same guy they would
easily meet up with by themselves just because he sends her a cocky online message.
It makes no sense. I guess some women don’t give you any extra points for having
confidence That is why I don’t take night game personally at all.
The shields are up. It is a huge obstacle fest of cock-blocking and women pretending
they don’t want to fuck (asd). All of her frumpy friends are with her and ready to drag
her away in a moments notice. Hilarious. It’s a total joke. If you take night game
rejection serious you are nuts. This is pure comedy.

The funniest part about it is that ALL those girls spend hours putting on make up or picking out a dress to look all "perfect" in for the night. They purposely do that to get approached by guys and have their ego boosted, they think "They're all that." But the reality here is that while they spent a few hours looking nice for us, we only spent 5 minutes getting dressed along with a 10 minute shower! So ultimately, the females end up with having a lot of pressure put on them having to reject us throughout the night. They were conditioned and brought up to avoid saying no. We are goddamn salesmen here, we don't feel bad if they reject our sexual advances, we only appear to care.
Author:  Ezo [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 7:09 pm ]
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I prefer house parties, they are so much more, real.
Author:  juice man [ Fri Nov 25, 2011 8:44 pm ]
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chris2k10

your right, that thing you said about 60 is totally right! but soemtimes i cant game during the day because im really busy during day time. but when you have to game at night time thats what you encounter, ultimatley the joke is on the women. hahaha.
Author:  tomhung [ Sat Nov 26, 2011 3:28 am ]
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house parties are great because everyone there knows someone who is there, so people have already been pre-qualified so girls are less hesitant about talking to guys they don't know. plus they are usually very friendly and chilled out compared to clubs. almost all the girls i've been with i've met at parties.

clubs are great because there are so many people, no one cares if you fuck up, and if your looking for something a bit more superficial, like a one nighter.

personally i prefer parties because the music is better and it's not too loud, everyone is more sociable, you can come and go when you want, you don't have to pay, annnd, if it's the girls house and you get on well you can just get laid in her room :D
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