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Author:  GoldDust [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 3:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Why can I not stop thinking about this girl?
Used to go to school with this girl and we left nearly 2 years ago now.

I'm out getting new girls all the time but when I'm at home on my own I just can't stop thinking about her, it's not good. I thought the cure for a oneitis would be to go out and get other girls, which I do.

I was an AFC back in school and she was the girl I would look at all the time but never speak to. This still goes on in my head and I don't know what to do about it.

I'm not really superstitious but this could be fate telling me she is "the one" or some shit LOL

Anyone ever had this?
Author:  UtahX [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 3:53 pm ]
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I'd say one-itits

Unless of course you are still hooking up with her. Otherwise the side truth is, it's time to grow and move on. GFTOW doesn't work. And, since I'm noob on here I can't post my link. But, I posted a little bit about it last night.
Author:  Txacoli [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 4:15 pm ]
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Yep I did. And I'm sure many others. Some girls are just more fucking special than others. At least to me. I dob't have to actively be in love with a girl to feel she's special. Even when I'm with other girls, some girls are still my "quiet suffering" kind of girls. Maybe it's oneitis, I don't care anymore because I realized FTOW doesn't help with that, sure it makes you feel good, but the only thing that helps is being madly in love. On the other hand, as we humans like to suffer, I think it's natural to feel this way, we need it. I can be very happy when I'm "suffering" for a girl, it brings a whole lot creativity in me and it pushes me forward to my goals. Some girls just make me feel like an old Bon Jovi song, but those are rare and few, so I don't mind having them in the back of my mind, I don't see it affect me negatively. I don't know if that's a sign that she's the ONE, but I'm sure it's a sign she's exactly the kind of girl you long for :)
Author:  GoldDust [ Thu Nov 24, 2011 5:07 pm ]
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Yep I did. And I'm sure many others. Some girls are just more fucking special than others. At least to me. I dob't have to actively be in love with a girl to feel she's special. Even when I'm with other girls, some girls are still my "quiet suffering" kind of girls. Maybe it's oneitis, I don't care anymore because I realized FTOW doesn't help with that, sure it makes you feel good, but the only thing that helps is being madly in love. On the other hand, as we humans like to suffer, I think it's natural to feel this way, we need it. I can be very happy when I'm "suffering" for a girl, it brings a whole lot creativity in me and it pushes me forward to my goals. Some girls just make me feel like an old Bon Jovi song, but those are rare and few, so I don't mind having them in the back of my mind, I don't see it affect me negatively. I don't know if that's a sign that she's the ONE, but I'm sure it's a sign she's exactly the kind of girl you long for :)
I know exactly what you mean. I just keep thinking that if she met me now, she would be mine. Yeah it doesn't really affect me negatively but it's always on my mind. I started learning about PUA towards the end of school but that was still in my very early days and was beginning talking to her in class. I was still kinda AFC and didn't have great game but I think she used to flirt with me in class.

Once I remember her sliding me a note in class which said "Hi :)" and we went back and forth for a while, was kinda funny and cute. That was my best memory with her, even if it was short. Too bad it was so late in the school year. Then it just went dead.
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