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honestly she wasn't that great in either category but things happen
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This girl certainly doesn't respect you and this relationship will start getting problematic if nothing is done. One thing you can do is freeze her out. Every time she think whether you are good enough for her, freeze her out. Don't stick with one girl all the time. (I don't mean you shouldn't be honest in a relationship, i mean you should show her that you have other girls too.)
When you play daygame or nightgame, you set up compliance tests. What do you do when they do not comply? Show disinterest. You don't jump into her hoops when she doesn't comply. You can jump into her hoops sometimes provided that she complies with you.
I think you didn't have the basics set up well thus resulting her not respect you. I understand girls feel cheap when they see you with another low value girl. ( I don't mean their value as a human being, just value as in resources and those.) It's just like preselection backfire.
Next time set up compliance tests for her too. When she don't obey you, give her IODs. If she lose interest in you, this girl is not worth it from the beginning and it will become your oneitis if you don't control youself. Control your urge not to be needy this problem will unfold itself.
Good luck bro.
