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Author:  thespikez [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 9:47 pm ]
Post subject:  I really need help and advices !Life Question not PU
Hi guys my name is Spike im 21 years old im in junior year of college,law student im working as a waiter part time.I've been in the this comunity for 2 months and what i can say is that it is a great forum people really respond to other for help so i have this question.
How to make money?Last month i barely had the money to pay the rent im eating 1 time a day,quited smoking,sold my guitar and other old things to get the money to pay the rent cause the money i get on my job doesnt even pay 30% of it, my family is broke i cant get any help from them.I'm totally demoralized
and thinking to quit the college,in 2 weeks i have to pay the next rent or i will get kicked out from the rented room again and i dont know what to do,i feel really depressed all the time and i cant study.

Now that you know my story please answer to my questions:
-Should i quit college and start working?
-How can i make some extra money?or a online job ?
-How can i get rid of my depression?
-Any way to get my hopes back up?I'm feeling hopeless all the time.

Guys I hope you can answer to this question cause i need to think about something fast.

Waiting for any response thanks.
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 9:59 pm ]
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Are you really going to let a internet full of guys you don't know make that big of a decision in your life?

I tell you what i would do, I would get on my game hard and find a chick to live with quick.

If they'res a will there is a way.. How bad do you want this? Do something intense and amazing, let this be the story that shapes your life. Don't quit an retreat like a loser.. Be a man and step up and make something happen for yourself.
Author:  thespikez [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 10:17 pm ]
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Quote:
Are you really going to let a internet full of guys you don't know make that big of a decision in your life?

I tell you what i would do, I would get on my game hard and find a chick to live with quick.

If they'res a will there is a way.. How bad do you want this? Do something intense and amazing, let this be the story that shapes your life. Don't quit an retreat like a loser.. Be a man and step up and make something happen for yourself.
I dont know anyone else who to ask. I love law school but i really need to get my life back on track before it's to late and i do something that i wil regret.
I cant get another job i have only 2 or 3 hours free 3 days a week.
And mate i made it all happen by myself i raised all the money for it in highschool. ... my parents can only encourage me because they have to raise my 3 other sisters.
I'm asking you guys for help because this only way i can get few new ideas and advices.
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 10:26 pm ]
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if you had a choice between lawschool and work what would you choose?

if school, go out and meet a bunch of guys and girls and find someone to live with..

A close buddy of mines moved to NY with 100 dollars in his pocket and a suitcase full of clothes. He left florida on a bus ride and told his parents he was never coming back and he meant it.

He spent the first 4 nights sleeping in a NYC park on a bench.. He then found some drug addicts to live with for a month while he found a 2 jobs and is now renting a room. Now he's working on his dream of becoming an actor..

If you really want something you will make a way for yourself
Author:  kisserofsinners [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 10:42 pm ]
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I'll try to answer you as honestly as i can, but this is a huge question for you and my advice is just a little bit of what (i think) you need to be taking in to make this decision for yourself.

I'm a high school drop out, with very little college education. I dropped out of college when i ran out of money and refused to get loans. It's a hard path, but i don't know where you're going to find the time to make more money if you only have a 2-3 hours a few days a week that you're unwilling to give up.

Do you have some skill that could be used more effectively to make money over your current gig? Do you have skills that will make a career for you right now? Are you good at sales? Are you really unwilling to sacrifice those few hours?

If it was me and i already got that far in school, i'd likely stick it out. You got a year and a half left to go. Get some loans. Do all the scholarship papers and shit, too. Create a bum-hustle: make some sort of bar food super cheap and go to the bars at night selling your wares. It's doesn't have to taste good, they're drunk. It just need to cost about $3-5 per serving, with low overhead. Sleep in your car and shower at school.

Remember, this is temporary!!! If you have to make hard choices give yourself a time limit so it's not depressing and stay focused on your goal. It feels really good to finish what you start, especially if it was really fucking hard.

Take care of yourself, Brother.
Kisser
Author:  Kabi [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 11:44 pm ]
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Never ever give up!
You're doing great because you're making something out of yourself, and even though it gets tough for you, just keep on in there.
I can recognize everything you're feeling right now because I've been there myself. We are just as young you and me, and keeping up with all these is not easy.

Go out and search for other jobs/or second job at your spare time, try to find something better than what you got now. I had 3 jobs at a moment just to keep up with rents, and everything else that I wanted. So never give up, go out and search and search, show your ambition!

Put out your goals, and go out and hunt for them!
Never stop believing in yourself!

This helped me alot, I watched it every day when I woke up.
Maybe it can do the same for you!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pH3QZvBfZeY
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