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Author:  hey_lover [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 12:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Do You Control the Sexual Actions in the Relationship?
It is common in a relationship for the girl to be in control of sex, which often leaves the male uncontrollably frustrated when she slams the door shut. Furthermore, this is often filtered down to kissing where she can often be the one putting on the breaks, or refusing to kiss when it suits her best. Note, this is a perception that I have built, rather than having experienced this, so correct me if I am way off the mark. Obviously, the male in the relationship isn't completely powerless, but less so than the female. Anyway, I was wondering whether there are males out there who are the ones in control, who are the ones deciding when IT is going to happen, which they've proved through instances where you have refused her advances.

Speaking personally, I think I've established that I am in control. For example, I went on a date with my GF, we returned back late to her place, and I desperately needed to go home to sleep, as I needed to wake up early in the morning. Anyway, she tried to blackmail me to stay longer, by opening up her legs, pulling me onto her, and thrusting her waist onto my penis. Indubitably, I was in a very precarious situation, but I maintained control and after much dry humping, and intense horniness, I somehow pulled myself off her and went home. We made up for it the next day, but that's besides the point. I felt like I showed that I can refuse sex, which I never thought was ever possible, and since then, I've felt that the ball is firmly in my park.

Likewise with kissing, the other day she was being silly and refused to get out of bed, as I was supposedly late to come over. Anyway, after cold shouldering her, she pulled me onto her whilst in bed, and wanted to kiss, I refused her, and she not for the first time was shocked. I told her that I would only kiss her once she got out, which only made her more determined to cross me. I've refused to kiss her on numerous occasions, and she reacts very similarly in almost shock. Anyway, she got even more upset as I was not only late(in her mind), but I was also not showing any affection, then I left and went into the other room where the football was on. She also tried to get one over me by threatening to not kiss me for the whole day, and I reacted nonchalantly with a cool, 'well, we won't be kissing all day then'. Lo and behold, she came out a little while later, and after going to kitchen, I asked her whether she wanted her token free kiss for finally getting out of bed, or if she wanted to play the all-day-no-kissing-game. I was game by the way, I actuallly wanted to not kiss her, but she couldn't handle it and was all over me in less than a second.

So I feel like I've established control over the sexual actions that occur between us, and I was wondering if there are others who were also able to gain control, and if so, how?
Author:  Snake Doctor [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 1:00 pm ]
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if you think you have control over sex in relantioship you are fooling yourself.

The only way you can have that power, is if you have fuckbuddies waiting.

Its only a matter of time before your g/f turn it around

Yes you can refuse sex... but how much time... when she withholds sex for two weeks? Arent you gonna feel frustared?
Author:  hey_lover [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 1:11 pm ]
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if you think you have control over sex in relantioship you are fooling yourself.

The only way you can have that power, is if you have fuckbuddies waiting.

Its only a matter of time before your g/f turn it around

Yes you can refuse sex... but how much time... when she withholds sex for two weeks? Arent you gonna feel frustared?
I do agree that she can quickly turn the tables, but I'm a patient guy. We've already had a two week dry spell, for reasons unrelated to sex, so I've already experienced that. I also agree that one can't completely control it by remote, but it's good to have a bit of power in an area where women are somewhat powerful.
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