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| Author: | bartm [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 9:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | need to ask lesbians to let me watch |
I live in an area where there are a lot of gay and lesbian couples. some of the lesbians are disgusting (they look like men) but some are so hot. how can i approach them and ask them to let me watch? is this possible or should i just keep on dreaming? |
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| Author: | kisserofsinners [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 11:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | It doesn't hurt to ask... |
But there are quite a few things you can do to improve your chances of success. 1st: this is really the most important, do you really want to "just watch"? Sit with that for a minute... What would happen if you actually got what your asking for here? Would just watching be enough, or would you attempt to bait a switch while it's in motion? If your answer is "no", i wouldn't proceed with this request, because you really want something else. I'd work that out first. What is your motivation? Do you think it's hot and want to get off on the image? Are you trying to learn some super secret lesbian technique? Is this some sort of will power test? Work with that motivation. Be really honest with yourself and it'll be easier to be honest with them. I would highly advise against trying in a lesbian/gay bar!!! That's our safe place. You're target may be welcome to your advances, but they aren't the only ones there! Bystanders are standing by to make you look like a fucking tool for even trying. That said, you might be surprised about your success during Gay Pride. There's lot of hot, new flesh that works it's way out of rural America. These girls have less baggage and political protectiveness. These are girls who maybe haven't yet been convinced that bisexual isn't "gay" enough. This is also a street festival like event, with lots of the general public around and accepted. This is an environment best used for the "education" motivation. If your motive is not education, i'd look online. If your motive is anything except education, i feel this request falls under "kink". The usual kink request rules apply (If you need help with this find a kink forum. There's a ton. Go look.) Ever been to a kink convention or "sex camp"? It's real! and people really consider your requests if you've got the balls to make them, but be ok with hearing "no" and don't get discouraged. Well, Mr. JoePublic, now what? You know your motive, you're in the right location... Approach with an understanding that your still in "their" space. Be respectful: there are lots of easy ways to imply judgments and generalizations. Think about what you say. These woman are likely to be very on guard (see: bitch shield) about a man approaching them about sex. Be ready for this. It's not really all that surprising, but what do you do about it? That depends on what your motivation is. Again, if you're not clear on motive try harder! The truth is your asking for something that most men only dream of getting. Humble will get you very far here! I know. I know. You guys don't like that here, but this isn't your everyday sarge, is it?! No. It's a god damned fantasy; treat it accordingly and you might get blessed with exactly what you want. I hope that helps. Peace Kisser |
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| Author: | enigma12 [ Sun Nov 27, 2011 11:21 pm ] |
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It might work if the girl is bi or has bi tendencies (some girls call themselves lesbians because they are in a relationship with a girl at the moment but are really bi) but if you keep approaching a girl and she is not giving signals and says she is not interested then its better to leave them to it. I am a gay woman who's very fem and so get naturally approached by guys all the time but going to gay clubs/bars is a safe haven for me because I get to be with women and not have to worry about having some guy creeping out and watch me or trying to pick up on me. Nevertheless, it still happens. If we don't want your attention, it's not because we hate you or men, it's just because some of us are not naturally attracted to men and so your efforts just go to waste and its uncomfortable for us girls who are really gay. So you're best bet is to give it a try only if the girl is giving you IOI's. Good luck |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 12:15 am ] |
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Lmao dude. What do they call people like you? Voyeur? You know..those people who have a fetish of watching other people doing it. My lesbian neighbors asked me what I wanted for my birthday. I told them I wanna watch so they got me a Rolex. They didn't understand I meant "I wanna watch." |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Mon Nov 28, 2011 1:20 am ] |
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Why would you want to approach to watch when you could approach to join in the middle of them? I swear I don't understand you guys way of thinking sometime. |
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