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Author:  ched101 [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 4:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Very goood friends, HB 9
So here is the issue. I have a really good friend, she is at least HB 9 and is always all over me, at school or out of school. I know for a fact that we are in the friends zone and i am happy with that cause she is a great friend and we have good times together. My issue is that everyone who knows us both say we act different to each other than to everyone else and that we clearly are into each other. I would get with her at the drop of a hat if I knew it would work. I game her often and get results such as a cheeky, 'stop it' etc. Lots of kino everyday but until now I have only thought its cause we such good friends.
The last month or so she broke up with her bf and will be will someone else pretty soon as everyone falls for her. Do you guys think I should start to seriously game her and if so any tips or should i leave it be ?
Author:  BigMike1985 [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 7:15 am ]
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give her the impression that friends with benefits is totally normal for you.

Tell her that sometimes you wish you had friends with benefits so you don't have to worry about Dating chicks your not even into.

Chat about that topic " would you ever hook up with a friend? Would it be a big deal?
Author:  Fearless6868 [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 9:12 am ]
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Hey whats up, here's my advice to you:
She's too comfortable around you, this is a time bomb waiting to explode, provided your interest in her.
So what to do....hmmm??

You've got to be the guy, not the guy that sits down with her and watches rerun tv shows, let that animal inside out.

Your harmless in her eyes. That has got to change like NOW.
she may not expect you to make a move which is due to the foundation of the friendship, but once you change your attitude, start showing the man in you, maybe dress differently she'll pick up on your change and will be curious, start attracting more friends around you, kind of keep her out and she'll be hungry for this new person she's not use to, and then once you've had your fun you can start getting intimate, just grab her hand, start randomly dancing, amplify your kino x10 don't hold back on your feelings. You're the only one that can fuck this up remember that with everything you do.
Randomly call her and say "Hey loser, we're goin out tonight pick ya up at 8" sometimes you just gotta do things your self can't wait for this girl to give you the signal "Ok go"
Goodluck
Author:  ched101 [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 10:18 am ]
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Cheers guys great advice, I will put it into action as of today!! To further imply this change in me to her, do you suggest a freeze out ? Or just make this change towards her and kino x10 and esculation then make a move with no freeze out ?
Author:  Fearless6868 [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 8:50 pm ]
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Cheers guys great advice, I will put it into action as of today!! To further imply this change in me to her, do you suggest a freeze out ? Or just make this change towards her and kino x10 and esculation then make a move with no freeze out ?
I would highly recommend the freeze out, but it can be a bit dangerous as this is still a close friend of yours and not a stranger, so with that said i would probably just continue on with the change, still show your interest in her friends but punishing her will probably lead to her just not talking to you, you want to punish her in a subtle way where she is completely clueless its happening.

its like switching the sugar for mustard for a blind mans coffee
goodluck, you got this!
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Nov 22, 2011 10:19 pm ]
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Cheers guys great advice, I will put it into action as of today!! To further imply this change in me to her, do you suggest a freeze out ? Or just make this change towards her and kino x10 and esculation then make a move with no freeze out ?
why would you freeze out your best friend?

You guys need to get your priorities in order.. is it worth risking a great friendship you have with someone just so you can get a potential make out?

Im sure if you asked her to hook you up with one of her friends she'd be happy to do it.
Author:  Don Draper [ Wed Nov 23, 2011 3:40 pm ]
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Well, it just comes down to what you can live with.

This is a chance. And like every other, it will have two outcomes. Positive or Negative. Let me go over them for you.

The Positive Outcome

You "game" her, she's initially confused by your sudden interest but you succeed, she likes you as much as you do. You're in a relationship with your best friend, it's awesome, you guys talk about everything under the weather, all kinds of sex, maybe get married, pop a couple of kids down the line.

The Negative Outcome

You "game" her, she's initially confused by your sudden romantic interest but you push it too far, she wants her space now, she doesn't want to spend as much time with you as before, she acts distant, she gives you excuses to not pick up your call or to not meet you, before you know it you've lost your friendship and someone who understood you so well.


So, you need to pick a direction and lead with it. Are you willing to lose it all, just for a chance to "get her"?

Were this feelings of attraction always present inside you or have they just erupted considering what "people told me" and "she just broke up with her bf"?

Most importantly, either way you'll lose the friendship that you described to be " in the friends zone and i am happy with that", because the way I see it, you'll either become something more or you'll ruin everything that you have now.

So, here's my question to you: Fold or All-in?
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