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Author:  Kuja [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 4:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Short Observations from THE FIELD
So I was out on a 3rd date with a HB10 last night. I've noticed when you're with a girl of particular quality that almost every guy will try to tool you to try and steal your girl. Why do guys do that? I mean to me it seems insecure or something. They should respect another man's date, that's what a real man is, I believe. Even the bouncer was trying to tool me when I was having a smoke.. I was drunk but from what I can remember I handled it all perfectly.

Also I was drunk and ended up asking the girl to be gf and bf. She said we can talk about it on our next date. I'm so stupid for doing that right? It should always be her that asks? Or am I wrong?
Author:  P-Style [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 4:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Short Observations from THE FIELD
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Also I was drunk and ended up asking the girl to be gf and bf. She said we can talk about it on our next date. I'm so stupid for doing that right? It should always be her that asks? Or am I wrong?
That's not the bestest of moves indeed. But you can salvage by saying you were drunk and want to get to know her better before taking relationship decisions.
Author:  Chai [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 4:43 pm ]
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Quote:
I've noticed when you're with a girl of particular quality that
almost every guy will try to tool you to try
and steal your girl. Why do guys do that?
He was trying to see how alpha you would come across or be
infront of your girl to convey your masculinity. Guys do
that cause they either wanna play with you to see how
far you will go to see what you will do, some will
just do it to piss you off and others will do it
cause they are infact insecure and feel like
you don't deserve that kind of girl...so
they can attempt to take her from you.
You must show respect to your girl
no doubt, but don't come off as
weak when another guy wants
to try and steal her from you,
that will lower you value
by the fuck load. Why
would she want to be
with someone who
has low value,
is weak and what's
stopping her from
going off with the bloke
who is more masculine than you?

(Those are literal examples don't
worry I'm not against you haha) ;)

You were drunk when you asked her to
be your GF? Judging by her reaction I
think you kinda closed the lid on that
box, how is she supposed to take
you seriously when you're
drunk and asking her that?
Also, why did you ask her
to be your GF in the first
place? You must act
like the prize and
wait for her to ask her
for your permission if she can
be your GF. If there was enough
attraction she would have probably
said something in later interactions with
you but instead you came off as needy and
she hold's some resistance towards you now.

The last thing you want to be is the puppy in the
relationship. If you hold week aspects about
yourself that lowers your value, being that
she is a 10, she could take advantage
of you and I don't think you
would want that.
Author:  Kuja [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 4:52 pm ]
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She said yes when I asked her so I texted her this morning asking if we are together or not and she said we need to know more about each other and we can talk about it on our next date.

I asked her cos I wanna be in a relationship with her she's a keeper. She has the looks and the personality.

So anyway, how do I recover from this?
Author:  Kuja [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 6:19 pm ]
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Ok she texted me sayin we should meet up soon last night, i ignored it and ended the conversation (in a good way.) Today she asked me do I wanna date on the weekend. I haven't replied. It will be the 4th date. Is it ok to be more "comfort" with her and agree to go or should I decline and wait till the week after - thus recovering. She did say yes tho when I asked her out (we were both drunk) so maybe the ball's in my court cos she's chasing me and not shit testing me at all. What you guys think?
Author:  Aegis88 [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 6:35 pm ]
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dude look, boyfriend and girlfriend status is usually something implied and not proclaimed especially when you dont know each other alot.
Coming to a person and asking for what you did puts tons of pressure on them and may cause them actually to take a step backwards instead of forward.
Dont think about it and just try to keep dating and seeing what will be.
If she's a keeper it doesnt always mean that she's yours to keep, so you'll have to find out eventually if she's willing to enter the relationship or not.
As you stated, she's sort of chasing you and asking you on dates meaning that she likes you and wants your company but she just needs to explore a bit more and get to know you.
Keep seeing her, charm her with whatever skills you have and make her understand why you're the one who's right for her.
Author:  Kuja [ Mon Nov 21, 2011 7:17 pm ]
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Quote:
dude look, boyfriend and girlfriend status is usually something implied and not proclaimed especially when you dont know each other alot.
Coming to a person and asking for what you did puts tons of pressure on them and may cause them actually to take a step backwards instead of forward.
Dont think about it and just try to keep dating and seeing what will be.
If she's a keeper it doesnt always mean that she's yours to keep, so you'll have to find out eventually if she's willing to enter the relationship or not.
As you stated, she's sort of chasing you and asking you on dates meaning that she likes you and wants your company but she just needs to explore a bit more and get to know you.
Keep seeing her, charm her with whatever skills you have and make her understand why you're the one who's right for her.
Yeah you're right pal. Chin up and proceed as usual :)
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