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| Author: | Breaking Bad [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 3:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Accept who you are or strive for perfection? |
Well who are you A or B? A) Accept who you are with all your imperfections and embrace it. Some might label this as settling for less but you dont. You know you by doing this you may not be a high achiever in things such as your career or looks but you are okay with this because you found peace in who you are. You most likely wont go to the gym often because you dont see a need to be the most muscular person or best looking. But you dont care for materialistic wealth or labels as such. B) or always strive for perfection. You are aware that perfection is impossible. It is the desire to improve yourself that keeps you going. In looks, such as going to the gym and you have a greed to be rich. You will never ever reach perfection but the motivation to improve and be better is always there and this is what keeps you going. Im probably B. hmmmmmmmmmmmmm |
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| Author: | bp029 [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 8:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Accept who you are or strive for perfection? |
Quote: Well who are you A or B?
I am somewhere in between. I know perfection can never truly be reached but at the same time I am not going to settle for A because if I did that I would remain way too shy around women and never be able to close a deal.
A) Accept who you are with all your imperfections and embrace it. Some might label this as settling for less but you dont. You know you by doing this you may not be a high achiever in things such as your career or looks but you are okay with this because you found peace in who you are. You most likely wont go to the gym often because you dont see a need to be the most muscular person or best looking. But you dont care for materialistic wealth or labels as such. B) or always strive for perfection. You are aware that perfection is impossible. It is the desire to improve yourself that keeps you going. In looks, such as going to the gym and you have a greed to be rich. You will never ever reach perfection but the motivation to improve and be better is always there and this is what keeps you going. Im probably B. hmmmmmmmmmmmmm |
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| Author: | mattflow [ Sun Nov 20, 2011 9:04 am ] |
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Im somewhere in between,if we wait until we become perfect or for some HB to love us before we love and accept ourselves we deny our existance right now and we waste our lives. I still make changes and unfold but the changes we make when we love and approve of ourselves now are more likely to be positive and for the right reasons not for vanity or validation etc and more inline with my highest values. |
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