Problem: One of the best things to do is to ALWAYS have a better answer so you can stay cool and flirty in conversation...
Well this is a problem to me. I was raised and taught always to answer a question and always to act kind and good give compliments...no matter i couldn't get a girl (though i must say i have high standards,i could be with 2 girls which liked me but that was just natural attraction,no seduction, but that is the other story...
So when i try to flirt, sometimes i do it good but most of the times i am being weird and not that much seductive.Since i am afraid that what i say may and will hurt the person i am talking to, which of course i don't want.
I got better in my game thanks to KINO techniques i learned but still i take things too seriously, its just my nature which i want to change.
I like to analyse a lot and this makes me nervous and serious. I just need an advice, how to be more playful, be a champ that everyone likes to have fun with .
How can i have a good answer to any stupid/clever question ??
Usually my autopilot turns in and says: What? Why ? No, its not like that? Ohhh youuu ....you get the point, (kind ,silly stupid polite stuff...which makes me go nowhere...)
Anyone has idea what to do to fix this ?
