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I got out of the Friend Zone (I think), Now what????
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Author:  kaykayw [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 1:44 pm ]
Post subject:  I got out of the Friend Zone (I think), Now what????
Hello ppl!

Right, basically over the last few months i'd began to develop feelings for my best girl mate at uni but by this point we were most definitely in the friends zone. So, basically I followed a few pua routines/patterns and after about 3/4months of pua work I kissed her and we spent a large part of the night doing so and we nearly went the whole way. We were very drunk when this happened but the next day it wasn't awkward. I tried to keep the kino going as much as i could etc and we spent the next day with each other but with other ppl around. On the night it happened she was saying how all her mates thought I was fit and that she thought I was really fit as well and thats when it happened. After so much work on my part to get it to this point I actually feel really proud of myself that i got there and i'm forever thankful to all you lot for your help. Now after being on such a high from the situation I feel really low because I think i've fallen for her even more and I want the relationship to go further.

So what do I do next? Do I act distant like i've been for a the last 3 months or do i go in and go for more?

Do you think it matters that we were pretty drunk, does the situation still have meaning?

thanksss
Author:  P-Style [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 5:07 pm ]
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Propose to meet up and do the things lovers do like holding hands and stuff.
Author:  kaykayw [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 6:18 pm ]
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ah ok, suppose that makes sense. you reckon sooner rather than later?
Author:  Ezo [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 6:21 pm ]
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Time to build up energy man. You got her interested and now you need to show her how great it is to have you in her life. Dont be too on unless she initiates it, just see her from time to time, step in, rock her world and disappear for a couple of days... Repeat.

AKA push-pull
Author:  kaykayw [ Thu Nov 17, 2011 1:42 am ]
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thank ezo,

I'll start doing push pull like before. Do you think I should talk about the night (in a flirty way) when I kissed closed? I want that night to mean something to her and not just be a drunken isolated incident. I sort of want to know that she let it happen because she was attracted to me and not other reason (ie, alcohol) . any thoughts???
Author:  SidTine [ Thu Nov 17, 2011 1:57 pm ]
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Well.. Hmm.. You should freeze-out, do a jealousy plotline and then reframe.. That`s my opinion, bcs this how you will deffinetly get out of a friendzone.. But it takes about 2-3 weeks.. And if you feel that you are already out or smth like that, you should show her that you are not a friend material or a pussy who is afraid of women.. Ask her out or even better, if there is a party where both of you will be there, game her there. But no future arragments in this case. You just have to make it happen, and don`t wait too long. Where you have a chance to kiss her, kiss her. If you don`t have a chance, create one. Don`t wait and do unnecessary things, like talk to her everys day, text her, telling her how you feel about her. Just do C phase on night and thatĖ™s it. good luck
Author:  kaykayw [ Fri Nov 18, 2011 5:40 pm ]
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she text me today asking me if i was heading to the same party as she was. I'm gonna go to a different party either way and i want to play the jealousy game here. So what should i text her?

I was thinking of texting something like-

'I'm not gonna go to amys party instead because i reckon there will be better girl potential there'

along those lines.

now should i also say, which i read in some pua book somewhere, that im gonna go to this party for sex essentially because after monday night (when i k closed) ive been in that mood all week?????

obvs ill make this all more fluid.
Author:  Ezo [ Fri Nov 18, 2011 6:04 pm ]
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This is too much...

Remember that it is a girl you are texting, and you have good relations with her already... Girls take everything you say and double if not triple the meaning. If you say just that you are gonna go to another party, one of the first thoughts that will cross her mind is that you are gonna see other girls. So you dont need to stress it.

If she is into you, she will invent things to be jealous of.

I would say something like:
"Hey girlygirl, I got invited to another party that doesnt sound as much like a total cockfest as the one we talked about. Not sure what Im gonna do yet but it kinda felt like they wanted some guys to come to that party to even the numbers... You could dress up like a butchy mechanic and come along... :)"

Dont forget the smiley...

Then when she inquires further, you may wanna go into details and tease a bit more... But you need to send something like this before bringing out the heavy guns, this is called calibration...
Author:  SidTine [ Fri Nov 18, 2011 6:15 pm ]
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This one from Ezo is very good.. Not trying hard, funny, teasing.. Great :)
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