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Author:  GoldDust [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 10:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Clubbing alone?
Anyone ever done it? I'm considering going solo one night and see how it works out. I feel you would push yourself into sets easier because you don't want to be seen alone but I don't know.

Any positive experiences?
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:20 am ]
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I have been clubbing along for more than 15 years, the best decision you will ever make...
Author:  mw111 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:27 am ]
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Hell yes. Go for it. First, by going alone you avoid the "no dude you talk to her" BS. Second, it shows some major confidence and makes you very unique and self sufficient in the eyes of women.
Author:  GoldDust [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 10:19 am ]
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I'm really tempted to do it as you don't have your friends to stick with or anything like that. Can you guys tell me how you do it when you stroll into a place on your own. Do you go straight to the bar for a drink then scope the place or approach as soon as you walk in?

I'm kinda a perfectionist in a sense and want to know exactly how you do it so I have a template to follow.

Thanks for the responses by the way, I was expecting people to say never do it but that isn't the case :)
Author:  chany313 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 10:28 am ]
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It's easier for me if I start from the beginning to approach. Especially if I am waiting in a queue for entry and start to have small talk with people.

If I start to sit and wait and look I often get AA. But these are only my personal experience and I am still only a beginner.

But going clubbing is a very interesting experience and often you meet new very interesting people.

How are the experience of the others? Also positive?
Author:  GoldDust [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 2:57 pm ]
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I'm thinking of hitting my local club tomorrow night. There is always this 2 set in there with this extremely hot blonde I've had my eye on for a while.

In my opinion 2 sets are the most difficult. I don't know how you would isolate your target without leaving her friend on her own. She wouldn't like that and would probably drag the target away. See this is when a wingman would be useful but going out solo makes this a little difficult. How would I play this one guys?
Author:  NickStar [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:26 pm ]
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Before I knew anything about the game I would get pissed or get high and when my friends leave me alone I would always go out and search for groups of ppl and start talking to them. It turns out that now that I know some game I realise that I'm looking for the same outcome.
Additionally when I'm sarging with a wing I always find it easier and funnier to open my own sets and he opens his own
Author:  ArrogantPenguin [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:34 pm ]
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I was considering doing this, but I'm waay to self-conscious about it.

I find that, when I'm alone sarging during the day, I usually have to locate a target, and give myself a few minutes to think about how this is going to happen, then I do it.

In a club, I always thought that it would be good having a "safety net" there, just in case you need to regroup for a few minutes and then go at it again.
Author:  GoldDust [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:45 pm ]
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I was considering doing this, but I'm waay to self-conscious about it.

I find that, when I'm alone sarging during the day, I usually have to locate a target, and give myself a few minutes to think about how this is going to happen, then I do it.

In a club, I always thought that it would be good having a "safety net" there, just in case you need to regroup for a few minutes and then go at it again.
Yeah I am self concious too, always have been. Part of being in the game isn't just girls, it's improving your whole life. I want to break out of my norm barrier and do things which would seem weird and scare me a little. The first time is always the hardest and it takes time to desensitize yourself to the situation to where it feels like a second home (the club).

By the way, anyone got any suggestions on how to go about a solo night out? I was thinking about talking to the bouncers, bar staff etc to give you social proof to start with. Please summarise your night on what you do, like who you open first. do you open guys and get friendly or get straight to the chicks?
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:49 pm ]
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go in the club, do not act like you are lost, first when you just go in head slightly high, walk with confidence not too fast,like you are the man, do not act like you are lost, insecure, as you first go in the club go to the bathroom fix yourself and your clothes look in the mirror, give a dollar to the bathroom dude get a mint, then go out, if you drink get a drink and look for the targets and logistics, then wait for club SPAM pick up time, you will feel it, if you a approach a 2 set dance with both targets make them have fun, befriend her friend by dancing or whatever game you do... As you start going to the same place people will start getting familiar with you, try to give eye contact and smile to strangers, say hi by tapping shoulders, high five etc... Club game women are a bit more difficult in some cases do to higher bitch shield...
Author:  GoldDust [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 3:59 pm ]
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go in the club, do not act like you are lost, first when you just go in head slightly high, walk with confidence not too fast,like you are the man, do not act like you are lost, insecure, as you first go in the club go to the bathroom fix yourself and your clothes look in the mirror, give a dollar to the bathroom dude get a mint, then go out, if you drink get a drink and look for the targets and logistics, then wait for club SPAM pick up time, you will feel it, if you a approach a 2 set dance with both targets make them have fun, befriend her friend by dancing or whatever game you do... As you start going to the same place people will start getting familiar with you, try to give eye contact and smile to strangers, say hi by tapping shoulders, high five etc... Club game women are a bit more difficult in some cases do to higher bitch shield...
That's the kind of advice I was looking for, thanks. I always walk with my head held high and got a cool slow walk. Learnt that a while ago and now it feels natural so my body language is fine.

I have a few questions about opening these chicks though. The night I will be going is quite quiet and not overly crowded with people. Opening two girls seated at the bar, how would you go about doing that? My thought was open them and ask them why it's so dead in here tonight but it seems boring.
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 4:30 pm ]
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go in the club, do not act like you are lost, first when you just go in head slightly high, walk with confidence not too fast,like you are the man, do not act like you are lost, insecure, as you first go in the club go to the bathroom fix yourself and your clothes look in the mirror, give a dollar to the bathroom dude get a mint, then go out, if you drink get a drink and look for the targets and logistics, then wait for club SPAM pick up time, you will feel it, if you a approach a 2 set dance with both targets make them have fun, befriend her friend by dancing or whatever game you do... As you start going to the same place people will start getting familiar with you, try to give eye contact and smile to strangers, say hi by tapping shoulders, high five etc... Club game women are a bit more difficult in some cases do to higher bitch shield...
That's the kind of advice I was looking for, thanks. I always walk with my head held high and got a cool slow walk. Learnt that a while ago and now it feels natural so my body language is fine.

I have a few questions about opening these chicks though. The night I will be going is quite quiet and not overly crowded with people. Opening two girls seated at the bar, how would you go about doing that? My thought was open them and ask them why it's so dead in here tonight but it seems boring.

i am not the best person to answer the 2 girl sitting question since i do not open girls sitting down, i open them dancing...
Author:  bp029 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 4:49 pm ]
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It's funny - I NEVER go into a club or bar alone, but when I go with my friend we almost always split up at some point so I am basically alone and by this time I am perfectly comfortable. I think it is just a mental barrier. There have been many night when I've wanted to go out but no one was around so I stayed in.
Author:  Ezo [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 6:12 pm ]
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If I want results, I go alone.

Going with others only holds me back unless they are very good.
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