Why would you neg a girl that isn't doing anything wrong?
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| Author: | amatpua [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 6:24 pm ] |
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There is a girl in my office, she first give me big IOI in sept when she repeatedly stared at me. I never got a chance to talk to her though, and could only talk to her last friday. In between there were regular stares at office canteen where she sat in a different group, hence we could never talk much. Now when I talked this last friday, things went real well, it almost felt like all those days we were staring at each other we were developing a silent rapport, and we really hit off from the word go and were really smiling and laughing. Now again I have not been able to talk to her for 2 days(mon/tues). Now I have decided to push things a bit and approach her at her seat, or odd places where earlier I wouldn't. Still I want to know after having opened her up, how much max time should I take to start dating her and how should I continue things. Till time we have only shared our academic details, project in office, our residences and tried to convey lot through our eyes, but no kino, no long time spent with each other, so guess not much comfort and no relocation etc. |
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| Author: | JSmooth [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 6:33 pm ] |
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From the time you open her up, get her to a date as quickly as possible. |
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| Author: | amatpua [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 11:15 am ] |
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I met her today, I had planned various things, including local relocation, spending 10-15 mins, develop comfort, but some how it was limited to just 2 mins, then some how I made a neg, she didnt respond I had to leave. So I will continue with this tomorrow, but how much buffer I have before I come across as needy. |
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| Author: | P-Style [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:12 pm ] |
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Why would you neg a girl that isn't doing anything wrong?
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| Author: | amatpua [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:23 pm ] |
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yeah , I am slightly new to game, yesterday she threw a slight attitude, though in hind sight, I realize she felt she needed bit more attention and perhaps I didn't give it, today I tried to neg her to compensate for the attitude shown yesterday, but now I realize I need to give her more value. So how many trial error opportunities I have, though I will try to close the next time. |
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| Author: | amatpua [ Wed Nov 23, 2011 4:56 am ] |
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Hey, right now its been over a week , somehow due to office circumstances out of my hands, I have had limited opportunity to talk to her, just hi, hello, and smiles, but now I again see some chance to talk to her next 2-3 days,, I want advice with my current situation, how should I follow on and close her, My brief game is. 1. SFT - Sexual, frame and tension [Basically feel how you want to feel, bring into your frame and involve slight push pull tension] 2. Let her qualify herself due to already created impression. Listen to her clues, calibrate her. 3. Talk in attraction phrase [3-5 mins], involve kino, DHV, neg(if reqd only then) If she makes qualifying SPAM(asks about me) then move to comfort phrase. Is this fine approach ? 4. In comfort phrase try to talk about lifestyle, and ... what else ?? Need guidance. 5. Try to close her.. I havent done this till now, I intend to k close, since I already know her details, then I can arrange date later. How should I close in office space - a. ask for date, b. K close and ask for date, c. make an adventure outing and make her join me, d. et her ask for it. Right now we are in attraction phase. |
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