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Author:  linebacker30 [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 1:11 pm ]
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So guys I have something to ask you.

I've been wondering what I should do for a couple weeks now... I have a gf but I'm not really that happy with her... I have great chemistry with her in bed and when I'm alone with her we can have fun... but when we go out anywhere in groups with her friends or mine, I almost never have fun with her almost feel like I don't have a gf sometimes even my friends told me that I didn't look happy when we go out together.

Would you guys stay with a good girlfriend, that takes good care of you, that has a good job and makes good money, that is really nice to everyone in ur family, respectfull, knows how to calm you down when you get angry, comes to ur house cleans ur mess, that cooks great meals for u... but yet somehow you don't have that spark cuz it's gone because for some reason you are not happy?

There is another girl that is really tempting me a lot... I'm not doing anything out of respect for my gf but fuck... I'm so tempted... But I'm always saying to myself that I have a great gf and that there isn't many girls like that but I somehow don't have the sparks for her. I'm worried to make a big mistake here like to leave her and then realise that I had someone really great, any input on this?
Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 2:10 pm ]
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So guys I have something to ask you.

I've been wondering what I should do for a couple weeks now... I have a gf but I'm not really that happy with her... I have great chemistry with her in bed and when I'm alone with her we can have fun... but when we go out anywhere in groups with her friends or mine, I almost never have fun with her almost feel like I don't have a gf sometimes even my friends told me that I didn't look happy when we go out together.

Would you guys stay with a good girlfriend, that takes good care of you, that has a good job and makes good money, that is really nice to everyone in ur family, respectfull, knows how to calm you down when you get angry, comes to ur house cleans ur mess, that cooks great meals for u... but yet somehow you don't have that spark cuz it's gone because for some reason you are not happy?

There is another girl that is really tempting me a lot... I'm not doing anything out of respect for my gf but fuck... I'm so tempted... But I'm always saying to myself that I have a great gf and that there isn't many girls like that but I somehow don't have the sparks for her. I'm worried to make a big mistake here like to leave her and then realise that I had someone really great, any input on this?
Thats exactly what will happen.. you'll fuck the new girl and regret it and won't be able to get you're ex back.. And the worse part is, you saw it coming before you did it.. Prevention: Let that be the word of the day.

I don't know what you're looking for, Do you want someone "perfect", someone that makes you happy with everything they do? People have flaws bro, everyone does. You're girlfriend sounds like a good chick, do you wanna go fuck it all up because you're hormones are outta wack?...

Do you ever try talking to her about why you are not having a good time with her while you guys are out with friends? And telling her what she could maybe do to make things a little better?

Even with that, don't expect to never get annoyed or happy with her.. This is earth, Idk what fairy tale planet your from but, here people make mistakes, fuck up and annoy you sometimes.. Thats just how it is.
Author:  linebacker30 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:12 am ]
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ya I know that I don't want someone perfect... I just feel sometimes that I still wanna go pick up girls and have fun and at the same time I'm like damn you can't just let go of ur girl like that cuz she's a good one... I know if I stay with this girl I'll end up getting married and having kids... I'm not sure if I'm ready for that giving up picking up chicks and crazy parties... How do you actually chose between the crazy party life or settling down with a nice girl?
Author:  PUA-Paris [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 2:05 am ]
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Keep her. You'll regret leaving her if you do, I wish I met a girl like that
Author:  da_roadrunner [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 4:50 am ]
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I had a girl like that. I was so enthralled at the idea of being great with women and how great my life would be with a different woman that I didn't realize what I had. To this day I see her as the one that got away.

If this girl is really as great and amazing as you say she is, and you really do have chemistry, maybe there is something else in your life that is completely out of whack. For me it was depression and the fact that I wasn't doing what I loved. Take a look at your life and figure out if there is anything else that you are unsatisfied with before getting rid of the girl. There is more to life than pickup and meeting women. You may have a hole in yours that you need to figure out how to fill. Women almost never fill that hole btw.

Also, figure out your goals with women. What would your ideal woman be like? How much are you willing to compromise? If she fulfills your needs and what you want, keep her. If she doesn't, get rid of her and find someone who does fit your criteria.
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 4:58 am ]
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I had a girl like that. I was so enthralled at the idea of being great with women and how great my life would be with a different woman that I didn't realize what I had. To this day I see her as the one that got away.

If this girl is really as great and amazing as you say she is, and you really do have chemistry, maybe there is something else in your life that is completely out of whack. For me it was depression and the fact that I wasn't doing what I loved. Take a look at your life and figure out if there is anything else that you are unsatisfied with before getting rid of the girl. There is more to life than pickup and meeting women. You may have a hole in yours that you need to figure out how to fill. Women almost never fill that hole btw.

Also, figure out your goals with women. What would your ideal woman be like? How much are you willing to compromise? If she fulfills your needs and what you want, keep her. If she doesn't, get rid of her and find someone who does fit your criteria.
This guy knows his shit
Author:  linebacker30 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:32 pm ]
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You may have a hole in yours that you need to figure out how to fill. Women almost never fill that hole btw.
Bro, I was exactly thinking the same thing that it might come from me... but I can't figure out what... I think that the fact I spent 4 years of my life with a woman who ended up cheating on me is actually affecting my situation... I maybe don't wanna spend up another 4 years and then regret that I didn't take all the opportunities that I had to fuck other chicks.

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Also, figure out your goals with women. What would your ideal woman be like? How much are you willing to compromise? If she fulfills your needs and what you want, keep her. If she doesn't, get rid of her and find someone who does fit your criteria.
She meets most of my criteria but I'm not happy... It's also a girl that I knew from high school... I used to have a crush on her and I was never able to pull her to me... when I saw her back 6 months ago, I was another person, I was on top of my game I could pick up anything I wanted and I did... she was like wtf hapenned to that guy and I decided to go out with her... now today I'm wondering if I didn't go out with her just because of my ego? Just to prove myself that I could now do it... but she's great that's the problem... I like her... but I'm not sure if I love her or maybe like you said... maybe it's a problem that comes from me I gotta figure it out...
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:47 pm ]
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i'll tell you something i've learned since you stated being cheated on... Most of the time when a guy goes from being cheated on and gets really hurt, karma rewards you with someone a lot better who is going to stick by you... Is there a chance that this is the girl?(':roll:') lol

Though, if you wanna have fun go out and do it... Live life and learn, your still young, you just don't wanna end up settling down with some fat bimbo when you 40 because you wanted to be a player all your life(like my dad :) )

Don't think on it too much, lifes about making decisions and living with them.
Author:  linebacker30 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:52 pm ]
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Though, if you wanna have fun go out and do it... Live life and learn, your still young, you just don't wanna end up settling down with some fat bimbo when you 40 because you wanted to be a player all your life(like my dad :) )
hahhaah nice one ;) lol the perfect thing would be to be able to pick up other chicks while I keep this one... but this is not something I'm used to do I will feel bad especially if I get caught
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 12:54 pm ]
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Though, if you wanna have fun go out and do it... Live life and learn, your still young, you just don't wanna end up settling down with some fat bimbo when you 40 because you wanted to be a player all your life(like my dad :) )
hahhaah nice one ;) lol the perfect thing would be to be able to pick up other chicks while I keep this one... but this is not something I'm used to do I will feel bad especially if I get caught
It wouldnt work out, unless you were completely honest with her about it and she still wanted to stay with you. Which is rare for a girl of her caliber.
Author:  linebacker30 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 1:04 pm ]
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Would you cheat if u had the opportunity?
Author:  linebacker30 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 1:06 pm ]
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Would you cheat if u had the opportunity?
Author:  linebacker30 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 1:09 pm ]
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Would you cheat if u had the opportunity?
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 1:13 pm ]
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I always have the oppurtunity lol.. IM fucking hot haha no but, its never worth it bro.. I done it enough to know. Unless you're cold hearted, you'll regret, and you can never take it back.
Author:  linebacker30 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 1:25 pm ]
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I think I would regret the first time but then I'd be fine
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