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Author:  Zildjian [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 5:04 am ]
Post subject:  Odd question about weight.

Alright, so this is something I've just come across.. And it's never bothered me before this. See, every morning. I can wake up and look at myself in the mirror and smile and think.. Damn, I am one attractive guy. (many months of inner game training). Anyways, I don't think I'm a bad looking guy. But recently, I looked at a photo taken of me about a week or two ago.. And noticed, I looked very out of shape and over weight. Just, wider and unappealing. It's gotten me to thinking... Do I actually look like that!? How can I see a good looking person in the mirror, and yet see me that I don't like at all? Is it just camera tricks?

This will be an odd one to answer, but I'm not sure of I should start working out again. (took a year off due to some surgeries). Also, if this posts twice, sorry. My iPhone does that for some reason, I'll watch and make sure to delete the second one.

Author:  charblad [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 5:36 am ]
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Things always seem different when seen in a different way.
Record your voice singing to a song and play it back - wtf i sound like that? is probly your reaction
Same thing with weight, if your far enough i look like a 80 lbs tall guy, if you get close i look even taller and weight more. Perception is a very easy thing to change.
If your worried about if you weight is bad use this to compare your height weight ratio http://www.healthchecksystems.com/heightweightchart.htm Even though you don't HAVE to be these exact weights if your 50 lbs off there might be a *health* problem. (health wise, not looks wise)
Other than that you will never be able to see how a girl looks at your body/weight so don't worry about trying to be one specific type to be appealing, many different girls like many different things and don't base their likes off of what you think of yourself.

Author:  bansario [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 11:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Odd question about weight.

Quote:
Alright, so this is something I've just come across.. And it's never bothered me before this. See, every morning. I can wake up and look at myself in the mirror and smile and think.. Damn, I am one attractive guy. (many months of inner game training). Anyways, I don't think I'm a bad looking guy. But recently, I looked at a photo taken of me about a week or two ago.. And noticed, I looked very out of shape and over weight. Just, wider and unappealing. It's gotten me to thinking... Do I actually look like that!? How can I see a good looking person in the mirror, and yet see me that I don't like at all? Is it just camera tricks?

This will be an odd one to answer, but I'm not sure of I should start working out again. (took a year off due to some surgeries). Also, if this posts twice, sorry. My iPhone does that for some reason, I'll watch and make sure to delete the second one.
Always keep in shape, not for women, but to feel good with yourself. Maybe you did gain some pounds, who knows. If that's the case and you feel you need some work, then make it happen.

On the other hand, it may just have been a bad picture. I don't think your inner game is so smart to be able to say "Yeah you look hot" when you're in front of a mirror, but then say "You look like shit" when you see a pic of yourself. That's not how the mind works.

If your inner game is bad, you will feel like shit even if Megan Fox is giving you a blowjob while telling you that you're the hottest guy in the world.

I'm just saying...

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