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Author:  cobra0541 [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 4:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Help trying to figure this chick out. :/

Hello guys. I'm new to this, figured I'd start with my current situation.

Like 2 years ago, when I was a senior in high school I had this freshman all over me. I never really thought anything by it other than she was very friendly and affectionate. She had a boyfriend too that she claimed to love. As the months passed I was close to graduation and had a field trip. She happened to be on the same trip so I sat next to her. Anyway she ends up saying that if she weren't with her boyfriend she would be with me. (They had a lot of problems and the guy was an asshole) Anyway I graduate and lost contact. I find her on Facebook and noticed she had another boyfriend 1 month later they break up (here's my chance let's just see how it goes). One day I pick her up from school and (just to make it short) we end making out in my car. But she kissed me like she always wanted to. She didn't even want to let me back out for air. A couple days later I tried getting us to meet up to talk but she seemed distant (like trying to avoid the situation). She ends up saying that if I wanted to talk about a relationship she didn't want to be tied down for a while. Now I texted her 2 nights ago and she never responded but then goes on my Facebook and likes my statuses. If she's going to ignore me then ignore me but playing mind games piss me off!

Any advice? Can anyone interpret this? (oh and by the way, when we were making out she said "having a thing for you before is not helping out." She was trying not to kiss me that day but I'm guessing her emotions got the best of her.)

What should I do? She has to have some kind of feelings for me but why be a bitch?

Anything will help guys. I appreciate this.

Author:  Slink182 [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 5:03 pm ]
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seems to me like you are severally over reacting, if you texted her once and she didn't write back chances are she was busy or something... I would think.
This girl likes you dude... your losing your frame by getting to caught up in the little things. if a text doesn't work, maybe call her, if no answer, leave her a funny voicemail "hey there banana pants, just called to check in on the kids! tell little marco I say hi and (blah blah blah wahtever)."

its also helpful to downlkoad the free ebook from howtotextgirls.com by the art of charm. I use it on the reg.

Author:  cobra0541 [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 7:18 am ]
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Thanks I appreciate it! Will also read that e-book. The thing is that she is acting very distant. That's the reason I mentioned that text. Being busy is fine but that doesn't mean you can't answer another day. A friend had told me that maybe she's trying to avoid falling for me, not sure, could be a possibilty I guess. We do have a history....

Author:  EddieFews [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 2:25 pm ]
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This girl seems a lil young bro... Come on.. Why are you even bothering?

She isn't going to take you serious, your two years out of high school and were a senior when she was a freshman..

I do believe you can do better than this, they're are a lot of other women out they're that are more mature, hotter, and that won't get you in trouble with the law.

You have to be smarter.

Author:  vibetto [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 3:31 pm ]
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hmm.. I think that she is definitely interested in you.. she is just as shy as you are, or I think that even more:D You just should start talking to her.. if you feel uneasy to call or go to talk face2face when u see her, you can talk with her in facebook;) if you are seriously interested..you can and you should make a contact, but like there was said earlier there are also lot of other women;D

Author:  cobra0541 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 5:16 pm ]
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hmm.. I think that she is definitely interested in you.. she is just as shy as you are, or I think that even more:D You just should start talking to her.. if you feel uneasy to call or go to talk face2face when u see her, you can talk with her in facebook;) if you are seriously interested..you can and you should make a contact, but like there was said earlier there are also lot of other women;D
Thanks for the response. I highly doubt shy has anything to do with it because her personality is not shy. She's very outgoing and she'll talk to random people like if they're friends (pretty cute actually). Calling her or texting her is not the problem. My problem is her acting distant or (dryer) oposed how we would talk before the kiss. That's whats throwing me off. She seems to always be busy when I ask her to hang out (avoiding me) but she seems to be making time for other friends. I'm sure it's becoming a little more understandable now but at the same time more confusing. You can only imagine how I feel.

Author:  cobra0541 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 5:17 pm ]
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This girl seems a lil young bro... Come on.. Why are you even bothering?

She isn't going to take you serious, your two years out of high school and were a senior when she was a freshman..

I do believe you can do better than this, they're are a lot of other women out they're that are more mature, hotter, and that won't get you in trouble with the law.

You have to be smarter.
Yea I understand bro, I mean, she's only 2 years younger but I am a lot more mature than her but what I mainly want from her is the affection she gives. The affection she gives is not like what most girls offer.

Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 5:22 pm ]
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This girl seems a lil young bro... Come on.. Why are you even bothering?

She isn't going to take you serious, your two years out of high school and were a senior when she was a freshman..

I do believe you can do better than this, they're are a lot of other women out they're that are more mature, hotter, and that won't get you in trouble with the law.

You have to be smarter.
Yea I understand bro, I mean, she's only 2 years younger but I am a lot more mature than her but what I mainly want from her is the affection she gives. The affection she gives is not like what most girls offer.

how many women have you been with to even say "most girls"

Women are affectionate.. thats what they do..

Author:  cobra0541 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 7:18 pm ]
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This girl seems a lil young bro... Come on.. Why are you even bothering?

She isn't going to take you serious, your two years out of high school and were a senior when she was a freshman..

I do believe you can do better than this, they're are a lot of other women out they're that are more mature, hotter, and that won't get you in trouble with the law.

You have to be smarter.
Yea I understand bro, I mean, she's only 2 years younger but I am a lot more mature than her but what I mainly want from her is the affection she gives. The affection she gives is not like what most girls offer.

how many women have you been with to even say "most girls"

Women are affectionate.. thats what they do..
Well none of the ones I've been with are like this.... I don't know how to explain it. She's the type to quickly fall in love with you. The ones I've been with usually try to hide that emotion. She puts it out on the table. I think that's cool idk. She doesn't seem to think relationships as a game as most do. Interesting, first girl I know to be like that. That's a reason I want her. I'm just trying to figure out why she's all of a sudden fighting it.

Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 7:27 pm ]
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Yea I understand bro, I mean, she's only 2 years younger but I am a lot more mature than her but what I mainly want from her is the affection she gives. The affection she gives is not like what most girls offer.

how many women have you been with to even say "most girls"

Women are affectionate.. thats what they do..
Well none of the ones I've been with are like this.... I don't know how to explain it. She's the type to quickly fall in love with you. The ones I've been with usually try to hide that emotion. She puts it out on the table. I think that's cool idk. She doesn't seem to think relationships as a game as most do. Interesting, first girl I know to be like that. That's a reason I want her. I'm just trying to figure out why she's all of a sudden fighting it.
Fighting what?... Ill telll you the truth. She wanted you because you were an older guy, she hooked up with you and then realized that it wasn't as cracked up as she thought it would be an lost all interest. You have a car, you're older and her friends will think its cool... She immature, she does think its a game because if she didnt she would of told you right out how she currently feels about you instead of avoiding you. Move on, shes nothing special.

Author:  cobra0541 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 7:36 pm ]
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how many women have you been with to even say "most girls"

Women are affectionate.. thats what they do..
Well none of the ones I've been with are like this.... I don't know how to explain it. She's the type to quickly fall in love with you. The ones I've been with usually try to hide that emotion. She puts it out on the table. I think that's cool idk. She doesn't seem to think relationships as a game as most do. Interesting, first girl I know to be like that. That's a reason I want her. I'm just trying to figure out why she's all of a sudden fighting it.
Fighting what?... Ill telll you the truth. She wanted you because you were an older guy, she hooked up with you and then realized that it wasn't as cracked up as she thought it would be an lost all interest. You have a car, you're older and her friends will think its cool... She immature, she does think its a game because if she didnt she would of told you right out how she currently feels about you instead of avoiding you. Move on, shes nothing special.
Before we made out she had said that she didn't want to be tied down. After we made out and spoke she re-confirmed it by telling me that she had already told me that she didn't want to be tied down for a while because she was already tied down since we had met. I just don't understand why the distancing. The problem here is that you're spending more time trying to put me down or make me look like I'm wasting my time opposed to trying to get an understanding so you can give good advice. Having a car doesn't mean anything, she has plenty of friends who have cars (guy friends too). Older guy, her first BF was an older guy. The second one is a senior she's a junior. Once she had a BF it really wasn't about friends. We know how teens are, especially during high school. We call them friends but we know they're not. She spent most of her time with her ex than se did with friends. Even in school.

Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 7:47 pm ]
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i just want you to move on... Its some petty highschool chick.. I want you to understand that there are millions of girls a lot better than her that you are more than capable of getting... Your wasting your time posting and typing about a highschool girl who will probably switch boyfriends every 3 months.

You can do better

You will do better

Its just a girl... You guys were not even having sex, it shouldn't be that serious. Get your dick out the dirt buddy. Move on

Author:  cobra0541 [ Wed Nov 16, 2011 8:05 pm ]
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i just want you to move on... Its some petty highschool chick.. I want you to understand that there are millions of girls a lot better than her that you are more than capable of getting... Your wasting your time posting and typing about a highschool girl who will probably switch boyfriends every 3 months.

You can do better

You will do better

Its just a girl... You guys were not even having sex, it shouldn't be that serious. Get your dick out the dirt buddy. Move on
If she were the type to switch boyfriends every 3 months, which I completely agree most teens do (especially in high school), then I wouldn't be wasting my time. She's had 2 relationships and both lasted longer than a year. I'll agree that maybe she is a bit immature and still has a lot to learn. That doesn't mean I can't keep her as a friend and around until maybe, hopefully, she matures and is ready to date me. You never know bro. Right now I haven't spoken to her in a couple of days. I texted her Monday cuz she was in the hospital and all I said was "Just saw that you were in the hospital. Hope you feel better" and that's it. I'm just trying to get a real relationship now. Everything I've had is only "No strings attached" and I'm kinda bored of that right now.

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