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Author:  Fantastic Mr. Fox [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 2:48 am ]
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Need help with HB who suddenly stopped texting, how to re-engage?
I met a hot girl at a club a few nights ago and had a pretty good time with her, there was lots of Kino and good rapport was built up right from the start.

I noticed she laughed a lot and was giving pretty consistent IOI's. I wasn't in a position to kiss close because one of her friends had taken something stupid and was being violently sick so they left with her pretty quick, I still number closed and texted her the next day, conversation is as follows;

Me: "Hey , how was the munch and doob? (reference to something we were talking about earlier), man as soon as the cab dropped me home I did exactly the same, went to bed like a baby!"

Her: [couple mins later] Hello - lovely had the nicest shower then came down to food, tea and a zoot, bliss! Then watched south park and conked out - had a good night? X

Me: [couple mins later, too soon, right?] "Tea! That's a great idea, I think I'll get on that myself, with biscuits! [again bringing up conversation from the night before] I had a sick night, I'm feeling the damage now but it was worth it! Can you keep a secret though? :O X"

Her: "Biscuits! You know the ways haha! Can I keep a secret about what? X"

Me: [30mins later] "Well... Don't tell anyone but I met this insanely gorgeous redhead last night and I had a good time dancing with her and all, but it's just a shame she didn't have bigger boobs"

Her: [Immediate] "Haha funny! X"

(This is where it starts going slightly downhill for me and I can tell I'm coming off as too keen so I'd love some critique on what I can do to remedy the situation)

Me: "I know! Her name was as well, nuts right? I'd still meet up with her again though, I want to check out some of that amazing photography work she was going on about"

Her: [An hour later] "Haha crazy - My photos oh my god too embarrassing!"

Me: [30mins later] "What, is your finger in the lens in all of them? Haha nah I bet they're stunning, you have a passion for it. Besides if your show me maybe you'll see some embarrassing ones of me?"

RADIO SILENCE

My last text was meant to be a lighthearted joke about some old modelling shoots I've done, some of which are pretty damn embarrassing, but I don't think she got the joke or I DLV'd myself or what ever.

Could someone give me some tips on what I should do next? It's been a day now since I last text her and I'm not sure how I should open to re-engage those sparks
Author:  Fantastic Mr. Fox [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 2:49 am ]
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Update

I went for a basic re-engaging text this afternoon and dropped her a;

"Hey there, guess what? :O"

She replied 2 hours later with

"What? X"

I haven't replied to this yet, since she replied so late I'm thinking of just straight ignoring her till tomorrow then rolling with something like;

"Hmm? Oh that, no it's not funny anymore it was one of those in the moment things"
Author:  charblad [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 5:44 am ]
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Quote:
Me: [30mins later] "Well... Don't tell anyone but I met this insanely gorgeous redhead last night and I had a good time dancing with her and all, but it's just a shame she didn't have bigger boobs"
Why?
If you asked me the worst statement you can make other than "I hate you, i wonder why you even gave me your number I must have been drunk to ask you" it would be close to what you said here. Btw this ones a lost cause now...
Author:  Dr. Mooney [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 5:53 am ]
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Freeze it out. If it doesn't pan out, so be it..The response that you were going for, you more than likely won't get anything back.

Just don't text back at all. Since you kind of left it hanging with her saying "What" leave the bitch guessing.

If she wants to know bad enough, she'll text you again, if not, keep rockin' out at the club. More HB's will come your way.
Author:  EddieFews [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 2:04 pm ]
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Freeze it out. If it doesn't pan out, so be it..The response that you were going for, you more than likely won't get anything back.

Just don't text back at all. Since you kind of left it hanging with her saying "What" leave the bitch guessing.

If she wants to know bad enough, she'll text you again, if not, keep rockin' out at the club. More HB's will come your way.
you can't freeze out a girl you've only had one text conversation with.. It wouldnt work, there is no type of attachment..

That boob line wasn't good because, now she feels insecure about her self, never judge a woman on something they can't change.. Talk about her jewelry, shoes , hat.. stuff like that.. You can only make the boob joke on a girlfriend that getting out of hand ( hey.. it works) lol

Also, stop using the "guess what".. force reaction type of text.. its childish and fake. And once you don't come with nothing worth guessing on, you're DLV'd even more.

I would suggest, waiting 2 days an then spark up another conversation.. wait until your doing something, in a good mood before you text her. Never text girls while your bored or in a bad mood. it'll show..
Author:  Jeff Winger [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 5:03 pm ]
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Just a general tip for anyone who is trying to be cocky funny/funny/etc.

For the love of god do not make fun of a girls physical insecurities. Small boobs, Slightly skew teeth, extreme cases of shortness, etc. Its not a neg, its not funny, its not going to help you get anywhere. All you're doing is being a dick and reminding her about something which she feels insecure about, yet has no control over.

You ideally want to be caring and say that boobs are over rated or something similar (in this example) and then say WHY. The key here is that you have to say it like you mean it, not what all the other guys have said have said in their half arsed attempts to calm her down so they can get some ass.

You also don't want to bring it up randomly in a conversation. It must seem like something that you barely noticed/noticed briefly but had no lasting effect on you because it is not important. Its about making her feel better around you than other guys. You are different from all of them. You're a pick up artist godammit!


If she is slightly over weight you're not going to say "Shes great, but it's just a shame she didn't make better use of her gym membership."

Why?
Because you don't want to be a dick?
Same rule applies.
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