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Author:  cameroon85 [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 6:15 pm ]
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Hey guys,

Back in the single game after a 4 year realationship . Been out a few times and had no success at all, primarily because I have the "fear" of being laughed at by a female.

I would say Im a good looking guy but im 5ft 5 and I tried an approach last friday, the girl basically turned away when I tried to talk to her :shock: . I didnt even get a chance.

I really liked the look of a girl last night but I just cant help being scared about approaching, Im a confident guy in most aspects of my life but picking upo strangers has always been hard for me.

If a know a friend of a friend then its far easier for me and I have a way in,

Any tips appreciated guys

cheers
Author:  Sparroww [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 6:20 pm ]
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"I'm nervous as hell, I might mess up, but fuck it. Getting blown out is better than not trying because if I don't try, I'll never get any girls."


Fuck approach anxiety. Push through it.
Author:  cameroon85 [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 6:22 pm ]
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I know mate, approaching that girl last week took a lot for me to do. Next weekend Im gonna try again, just hopefully not bitch out again! :evil:
Author:  lev269 [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 9:25 pm ]
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just think ' the more you get rejected the better you get'
Author:  0uch [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 11:27 am ]
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I am 5'6. On saturday, all my sets hooked. And pretty much most girls I opened were taller then me.

Key is to approach with good body language and fun energy. Don't worry too much on what your gonna say. This will be over written by body language and your energy. Also, talking to women is something you have to enjoy instead of seeing as chore.
Author:  EddieFews [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 2:12 pm ]
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My friend aus is 5'4 and already fucked 37 girls by the age of 19..

That speaks for itself bro.. You gotta be a man
Author:  bp029 [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 2:24 pm ]
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I am 6'6" and I have been trying to approach for months but can't make myself do it! But I will be out again next weekend though that is for sure. I knew a guy who was barely over 5 feet tall and had no problem approaching successfully - height doesn't mean anything.
Author:  kasabi [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 3:30 pm ]
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I am 6'6" and I have been trying to approach for months but can't make myself do it! But I will be out again next weekend though that is for sure. I knew a guy who was barely over 5 feet tall and had no problem approaching successfully - height doesn't mean anything.
Height definitely means "something". . .

Lots of questions to ask a 6'6 dude. Being 5'5 (on a good hair day), I'm usually staring at breasts all night long. You can probably scan the whole room by taking a periscope spin. What do you do when you chat with short chicks? Take a knee? You ever put your hand on top of short chicks and tell them that you're going to dominate them, dribbling their heads like little basketballs? Man, if I was 6'6, that would be my gig. I'd go for that deep giant voice and threaten knuckleheads that I'll squash their little heads together like walnuts if they don't behave.

I'd also have a 'go-to' white lie/ joke about a 5 foot tall imaginary ex girlfriend . . . And it would only work if you kept a total, straight face:

"She was a saint, blah, blah, blah . . . she loved doggy style. This was her vice, her 'ardeur'. And it was the one thing I could not provide. You know, on the account that I'd hit air instead of her vagina . . ."

Her: Blah, blah, blah

You: So you're not passionate for doggy style?

Her: blah, blah, blah

You: Well, should get along just fine.
Author:  bp029 [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 4:08 pm ]
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I am 6'6" and I have been trying to approach for months but can't make myself do it! But I will be out again next weekend though that is for sure. I knew a guy who was barely over 5 feet tall and had no problem approaching successfully - height doesn't mean anything.
Height definitely means "something". . .

Lots of questions to ask a 6'6 dude. Being 5'5 (on a good hair day), I'm usually staring at breasts all night long. You can probably scan the whole room by taking a periscope spin. What do you do when you chat with short chicks? Take a knee? You ever put your hand on top of short chicks and tell them that you're going to dominate them, dribbling their heads like little basketballs? Man, if I was 6'6, that would be my gig. I'd go for that deep giant voice and threaten knuckleheads that I'll squash their little heads together like walnuts if they don't behave.

I'd also have a 'go-to' white lie/ joke about a 5 foot tall imaginary ex girlfriend . . . And it would only work if you kept a total, straight face:

"She was a saint, blah, blah, blah . . . she loved doggy style. This was her vice, her 'ardeur'. And it was the one thing I could not provide. You know, on the account that I'd hit air instead of her vagina . . ."

Her: Blah, blah, blah

You: So you're not passionate for doggy style?

Her: blah, blah, blah

You: Well, should get along just fine.
You're right! Height does mean something but I think confidence means a lot more to women. I def get a fair amount of approaches from women that are looking for tall guys. BUT a shorter confident guy that approaches a lot of women is going to absolutely do a lot better than me. Also, I am too tall for a lot of women's tastes so there is that too.

Yes I can definitely scan a room- that is an advantage of being tall no doubt. Even in a cram-packed room I can easily look around for women that I find attractive. I often will see an IOI from wayyy on the other side of the room. LOL I never palm their heads since I've learned the hard way that the quickest way to turn a girl off (and also piss her off) is to muss her hair up since she probably spent an hour working on it. If I see a cute short girl sometimes I try to get her attention by going next to her and standing as tall as possible.

As for shorter women - I was actually talking to a woman who was probably around 5'3" the other night. I have to lean WAY down to hear what she is saying when it is loud in the room. Of course I hear you shouldn't lean in so I try to go about half way.
Author:  Lionheart9999 [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 7:50 pm ]
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I think about this sometimes. I am 5'8.5 or so, but not one woman has ever commented on my height.

I've had women interested of all heights too:

5'1
5'2
5'3
5'4
5'5
5'6
5'7
5'8

(literally)

Just be confident, and jack yourself up like a UFC fighter. And as far as kasabi's comment goes about being 6'6 and joking with shorter guys about how he would take care of them if they didnt behave: I lol'd hard. Watch a ufc fight and tell me who wins, shorter or taller guy. Its literally like 50 50, and per weight class the shorter guy is 9 times out of 10 stronger.
Author:  0uch [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 12:33 pm ]
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Lol, I hooked up with hot girl taller then me that said she only dates guys taller then her. Of course, it was not from cold approach. It was from social circle and we see each other all the time.
Author:  cameroon85 [ Tue Nov 15, 2011 1:46 pm ]
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Lol, I hooked up with hot girl taller then me that said she only dates guys taller then her. Of course, it was not from cold approach. It was from social circle and we see each other all the time.
You see this is exactly do-able I agree, once you get to know her I find it a lot easier.

It's almost as if there is a huge stigma surrounding short guys but once they get to know you its ok
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