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Author:  Sway321 [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 3:50 am ]
Post subject:  need help with a situation!
So guys, here is the run down. Id appreciate any advice on what I should do from this point on.

There is this girl I went out with two days ago to a bar. At first, I felt as if it was not going to go well at all but after a few beers and a few good convos later we were at each others face. We ended the night with a full blown make out with hands flying all over the place and in my mind, the night could of not ended better (besides getting laid ofcourse)..

Now the catch is, I work with this girl..

The next day at work, I felt like she was acting akward around me or something along those lines. It seemed like she was trying to avoid me or something. It was odd. Through out the day, I tried texting her but she would seldomly respond, (it was ap retty busy day tho, so I understand that). She ended up responding one of my random attempts to strke up a convo thru text with.. "so did you have fun lastnight?" and I responded with something cock/funny but ended up telling that of course I did and she never responded back untill I asked her if she had had fun. predictably she said she had..she left that same day with out saying anything to me. I just found it odd.

I suppose I'am trying to figure out what went wrong? Was she expecting more attention from me? Less? Or is anything even wrong . Iam thinking about asking her out the next day or two again. Should I wait untill she initiates interesting again?

It just feels like an odd situation. What do you guys think? Meanwhile, I'll just try to game more girls but I do have a particular unique interest in this girl.

Thanks!
Author:  Sparroww [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 2:55 pm ]
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If she said she had fun and is still texting you, then believe her. She might just not want other people at your work to think you two are in a relationship. Bosses usually frown upon dating within the workplace.
Author:  green_mo [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 3:45 pm ]
Post subject: 
Maybe was only one night stand :)
Author:  Chai [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 3:48 pm ]
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My first question is: Was she drunk? I'm not trying to insult
but maybe she was under the influence and got into a
situation which she couldn't really justify herself
doing and she has some kind of guilt towards
the situation. If the initial attraction was
there or if she was attracted to you before it
might turned out different afterwards.

I wouldn't ask her out for a while because she
may have some awkward resistance towards
you at the moment and if you try too hard to
do something with her again you'll drive
her away and then it will become even
more awkward and you'll end up
driving her away from you, and
if she's at your workplace
that won't do anyone any
justice. Give her some time and try
again after 3 days and see what her
take is on it.

I'm getting this vibe that she's guilty
about something. The way this sounds, I would
give the chick some space.
Author:  Sway321 [ Sun Nov 13, 2011 10:23 pm ]
Post subject: 
okk, so guys thanks for the anweres. I saw her again at work today and it seemed like you were right about a few things. I do believe she feels guilty about moving things that fast, and she was pretty tipsy. I'am sure the alcohol had somethign to do with her willingness to do more than she had in mind to do taht night...


I talked to her briefly today and brought up something about her having a hard time right now because she's in touch again with her EX (whom she went out with for 3 years apparentltly). I think after hearing this, Ill be taking a few steps back form this girl, shes great and all, but I don't think this would lead to any where good.

Who wants drama in their life?



I suppose I'll just give her some space and wait about a week or so.

Does that sound ok?
Author:  Chai [ Mon Nov 14, 2011 6:10 am ]
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Yeah man just give the chick some space to think about things
you know, if she's still back with her ex she may just be
looking for comfort or even someone just to justify
occasional sex with. She's indecisive cause she's
now got 2 guys after her and she's having
mixed emotions about both of you.

Give her a week, if she's really into you
she'll give you that attention, if not
then maybe move on from her.
The last thing you want to do
is come off as needy like a
puppy dog, when she then
see's that you can be
easily controlled she
may soon take
advantage of it. Don't act
needy it will lower your value...
Author:  will29 [ Fri Apr 13, 2012 5:22 am ]
Post subject: 
Quote:
Maybe was only one night stand :)


I don't think he slept with her, he said besides getting laid in paraentheses about night couldnt end better.
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