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Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 4:26 pm ]
Post subject:  How do you get IOI's?
Everyone knows IOI's show a girls interest in you, such as, asking questions about you, keeping up the conversation, eye contact and etc. But how exactly do you get them? And what exactly can you do with them once you get'em.

You get them or see them after approaching her, or sometimes right before. Once you get them you mentally file them away and continue the process of talking to her knowing that she is interested.

Wasn't 100% sure of your question.
Author:  PUAMonster [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 4:45 pm ]
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As for getting them, well, that's kind of what this forum is all about. Do some reading and learn some general PUA stuff and you'll be getting plenty of IOI's from girls all over the place. As for what to do with them, use your imagination. If a girl is clearly interested in you then what are you gonna do?

Cheers
Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 4:51 pm ]
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As for getting them, well, that's kind of what this forum is all about. Do some reading and learn some general PUA stuff and you'll be getting plenty of IOI's from girls all over the place. As for what to do with them, use your imagination. If a girl is clearly interested in you then what are you gonna do?

Cheers
Thanks for your response bro! Well yes, I've been reading about this topic for days now and (in my understanding) I believe once a girl is interested in you, you are to show interest back? But isn't their like something important your suppose to say At this point - like a line? I'm not sure.
Author:  P-Style [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 5:20 pm ]
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As soon as a girl show interest it's ok to show interest back. When she's clearly into you it's mostly non-verbal kino escalation you need to do. You can try to turn her on verbally but the physical is far more important.
Author:  PUAMonster [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 8:30 pm ]
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I agree with P-Style. It's a good idea to get some kino in there. Build up for the nice close at the end :)
Author:  AmazingArt [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 9:14 pm ]
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The best way to get IOIs is by not giving the girl the reactions she expects from you. A girl when talking to you always does or says something to see you reaction. When you don't give the girl the reaction that she expects from you she keeps trying harder and harder because girls(everyone but especially girls) have this mentality that they want to have that which they can't have. She will then start try to get your attention by doing things she wouldn't regularly do like touching you, joking with you etc.. That is how you get IOIs. But just to make it clear this does not mean you should not react to anything she says all it means is you react according to your beliefs and values and not the values she will try to project on you. The opposite you act like you think is right and she will follow that. Good luck.
Author:  Pinkfloyd123 [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 9:27 pm ]
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The best way to get IOIs is by not giving the girl the reactions she expects from you. A girl when talking to you always does or says something to see you reaction. When you don't give the girl the reaction that she expects from you she keeps trying harder and harder because girls(everyone but especially girls) have this mentality that they want to have that which they can't have. She will then start try to get your attention by doing things she wouldn't regularly do like touching you, joking with you etc.. That is how you get IOIs. But just to make it clear this does not mean you should not react to anything she says all it means is you react according to your beliefs and values and not the values she will try to project on you. The opposite you act like you think is right and she will follow that. Good luck.
Interesting comment Amazing! But can you give me a demonstration of what you meant by, "When you don't give the girl the reaction that she expects from you she keeps trying harder..."

What exactly would she say to me to make me react a certain expected way? And what should I really do?
Author:  AmazingArt [ Sat Nov 12, 2011 10:57 pm ]
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Pink a girl will many times act like she doesn't want to talk to you but she really does. She will also many times say "what?" and stare at you making believe she didn't hear what you said just to see how you react to that. After she does these things she expects you to act like 90% of all other guys which is to get conscious about themselves and have an apologetic look. For example you approach a girl and say

You:"Hi, how you doing tonight"
She: I'm doing good but Sorry I have a boyfriend(at this point she expects you like 90% of the guys to get nervous say sorry and leave however you do something that 90% of the guys don't and say)
You: You know what made me notice you from everyone else etc..(at this point you just continue to say what you were going to say anyways and make believe like she never said that she has a boyfriend)

This will just turn her on because she will know your not like the 90% of other guys(losers in her mind) but rather your the other 10% of guys who unique and as we know everyone likes unique things. She sees your not the type of guy that will bend to her pressure. From this point on she perceives you as the special one and will try to win your attention. She will for example say your short looks nice. And again she will expect you to say the same back to her like all other guys. You will on the other hand just dismiss it with like "thanks" with no reaction. Again it will drive her crazy because you didn't comment back and give her the attention(reaction) she expected. Then she will try harder and harder and this pressure will build up till the point where she will be willing to do sexual things for you just to win your attention. This is how you get IOIs and drive girls crazy. Girls want what they can't have if you don't believe me ask them. Good luck.
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