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Author:  gtdave [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 3:55 am ]
Post subject:  Material possessions

I've been wondering about this for a while...

My lifestyle is decent it's not spectacular but I'm very lucky in a few aspects. A few examples... Im able to drive a new Porsche 911 C4S Targa every weekend. It's lightly tuned, sports exhaust, bright red paint and black painted wheels. Everything's great except I feel it's hard to not look like a dickhead when I pull up to a bar or club. Girls seem to judge me by it.

The girls that have known me personally for a long time all know that I'm not a poser or a guy who judges people on what they have. However when meeting new girls I've been finding that many don't believe the answers to their questions!

Example...

A few weeks ago in a bar I got talking to a hb8. Everything was going perfect until the questions started! She asked where I would be the following week and I said "Copenhagen" then she asked what I drove where I worked ect.

She then declared that I was talking shit and walked off!

I've also had girls accusing me of boasting! Now I've always been very careful not to brag or be boastful in social settings! I always just tell them that they asked the questions so I told them the answers...

Lately I've been not admitting to my lifestyle and everything is getting much smoother! I don't attract gold diggers and the normal girls don't think I'm a twat lol


Just realised I didn't actually ask a question. Guess I just wanted to get this annoyance off my chest!

Author:  bansario [ Fri Nov 11, 2011 11:53 am ]
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Cool that you're getting it off your chest man, though I think it's one of the rules of this category to ask a question. Oh well.

I'm a bit doubtful that at some point you didn't come across as a show-off. Why? Well, simply because you described EVERYTHING about that car when no one else asked or needed to know.

I think it might be subconsciously (or not), but if you were able to give that much level of detail about your material possession, then it may have certainly come out at some point during an interaction with a woman. Subtle things matter in this game.

Anyway, keep doing what you think it's working and good luck.

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