PUA Forum :: Advice on getting started

Hi I apolgize if this topic already exists. I could use some advice on getting started from being a afc and changing into a pua. I will be doing the newbie challenge this afternoon and I hope it goes well. I am also going to a local club on the 19th for my friend's bday. I promised my friend that I will attempt picking up and approaching women. I tend to freeze and have no idea what to say.

Now the club will be showing the UFC ppv so there will be a lot of jock bulldog types there. I am fairly small and kinda look like a geek compared to them. What would be a good way to open and possibly deal with competition?

Author:	DjMog [ Thu Nov 10, 2011 8:07 am ]
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Hi I apolgize if this topic already exists. I could use some advice on getting started from being a afc and changing into a pua. I will be doing the newbie challenge this afternoon and I hope it goes well. I am also going to a local club on the 19th for my friend's bday. I promised my friend that I will attempt picking up and approaching women. I tend to freeze and have no idea what to say. Now the club will be showing the UFC ppv so there will be a lot of jock bulldog types there. I am fairly small and kinda look like a geek compared to them. What would be a good way to open and possibly deal with competition?

Author:	Tru_Bishop [ Thu Nov 10, 2011 8:25 am ]
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hey i'm new as well, i most likely will start off by doing the newbie mission try to get rid of the AA

Author:	bansario [ Thu Nov 10, 2011 11:41 am ]
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Quote: Hi I apolgize if this topic already exists. I could use some advice on getting started from being a afc and changing into a pua. I will be doing the newbie challenge this afternoon and I hope it goes well. I am also going to a local club on the 19th for my friend's bday. I promised my friend that I will attempt picking up and approaching women. I tend to freeze and have no idea what to say. Now the club will be showing the UFC ppv so there will be a lot of jock bulldog types there. I am fairly small and kinda look like a geek compared to them. What would be a good way to open and possibly deal with competition? This guide should definitely help you: http://www.bosproject.com/how-to-become ... #step2five and this free tutorial for practice: http://www.bosproject.com/joinfree.php?tid=tru Good luck.

Author:	0uch [ Thu Nov 10, 2011 1:53 pm ]
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if you can make pick up fun instead of taking it seriously, you will do just fine.

Author:	mr.fathat [ Thu Nov 10, 2011 3:34 pm ]
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Give it your best shot but also don't feel that if you fail, you're a failure. This shit takes time to 'experience'. I've barely scratched the surface but after a 4 year relationship followed by 1.5 years of being single, the rust is FINALLY starting to shake off. I'm starting to feel opening women becoming natural again. It's taken 6 months of preparing my mind, a week with a MPUA and a string of solo pick-ups to finally feel progress. And to be honest, I hate that it took so long since it's not a big deal at all. If you are able to pull off bringing someone home on your first night out, you've done better than 99.8% of the guys on this forum. The key is being comfortable in your skin around these women. If you think too much, it's a bad thing. If you think too much negatively, it's even worse. You can try to force situations but for someone with little experience, this can lead to a lot of dead sets. You have Ottawa and Montreal within an hours driving distance and Kingston within 2 hours. You'll find a much higher target rich environment there. I recommend finding someone in the same boat as you so you can push each other on weekend trips to those other cities.

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Author:	DjMog [ Thu Nov 10, 2011 6:06 pm ]
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Thanks for the tips. I am planning a trip to Ottawa very soon. I would love to have afriend help me out but I do not have any friends that can come with me. Most of my friends are married and the ones who are single are bitter and miserable.

Author:	mr.fathat [ Thu Nov 10, 2011 6:57 pm ]
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Quote: Most of my friends are married and the ones who are single are bitter and miserable. They don't want to be bitter and miserable. You almost have to become a saleman and get them on board with meeting people. Also, I have a married buddy who comes out with me to meet women. He's very much committed but that doesn't mean he can't meet new people.

Author:	DjMog [ Thu Nov 10, 2011 7:10 pm ]
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I tried to convince them to go out more to little to no success. Most of my friends are the homebody type like I used to be.

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