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Author:  Lodewijkp [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 8:28 pm ]
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dating girls with BF ... i read so much about this shit... what is wrong with you idiots.. why destroy a relationship anyway ?

if you are really good with woman and you get woman you don't have to get this particular woman who already is in a relationship... just leave them fucking alone.

what do you want to prove ?
Author:  green_mo [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 8:42 pm ]
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I have one night stand with two girls, who have BF.

I now that suck, in my experience it's best to leave this girls alone :)
Author:  DJ_Z [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 9:33 pm ]
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I'm with you, dude. I have been in a situation where I was cheated on, it sucked, and I would like to not put another guy through that. I do not think it is worth the drama. For the sake of continuing discussion, though, I will bring up the arguments I have heard to just not care about what the relationship status of a woman is when you game her.

1. Narcissism. I know its negative, but to some guys things they enjoy and things that benefit them are good. He enjoys fucking women, so that takes priority over what happens to others in the aftermath.

2. If she loved him, she wouldn't cheat. Some guys believe that a girl who is willing to cheat with him is going to cheat eventually on her boyfriend. If that is the case, the relationship is basically over anyways, so why not be the guy? The pain on the boyfriend should be blamed entirely on her.

3. The guy is a tool. Women date assholes all the time. I don't mean assholes as in cocky dudes with an edge, I mean shitty human beings. Thus, destroying her bf and contributing to the end of a relationship is a good thing.

I lack the self-centeredness or #1, and #2 just never sat well with me. #3 doesn't bother me, and that is basically the only exception I would make for gaming girls in relationships.
Author:  om3n [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 9:46 pm ]
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If she has BF, I keep on gaming but focus on understanding how well is the relationship going. If it's not going well, I have no moral problems. But if I sense the relationship is at least okay, I just move the fuck on. If someone's having a good time with the girl I won't ruin it because of my lust.
Author:  motownsoul [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 10:03 pm ]
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I agree with DJ_Z.... But I use to not give a fuck...Oh she has a boyfriend? An even bigger challenge!!

But, being on both sides of the sword, I've grown a little bit..It sucks pretty bad finding out your girl is talking/cheating behind your back.......yet, it can feel awesome knowing...heh heh this girl has a boyfriend and instead of her fucking him, shes giving it to me!! Im the MAN!! muwhahaha...........But the reality of it... If you know she has a boyfriend...and you continue the pursuit...by means of finding information about her situation, and amplifying the negatives, which are present in any relationship, and persuading her it would be a good idea to sleep with you, is in reality pretty pathetic. And I say this with the experience of being the guy to fuck a couple girls who had boyfriends..and one who was engaged..I thought I was the man for accomplishing those feats, until I got in a relationship and karma returned...I had to put up with a "me" lol Dude well aware we're in a relationship...but he tries to be sneaky and try to manipulate my girl I'm the bad guy by pointing out my flaws, which EVERYONE HAS SEVERAL....My suggestion...Save yourself some self respect, pride, integrity, and dignity...and Don't be that guy.
Author:  iLoveTurtles [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 10:12 pm ]
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I use to read up on ways to break through the "I got a boyfriend" line because I was stumped. Now that it's ingrained in me, I think of it as a challenge for me to keep practicing.

Morals? Let me ask the boyfriend this. What right do you have to deny my presence?
Author:  motownsoul [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 10:15 pm ]
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Her saying she has a boyfriend, to deflect your attempts..is different than her actually having a boyfriend......it depends on the circumstance and what you're really looking for I guess...Good luck to the OP
Author:  om3n [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 10:49 pm ]
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I never ever put the BF down. I always say something in lines of "that must be great!" etc. If they really disagree with that then I know I can go on. If they somewhat agree with me, I just leave them alone.

Putting the BF down is not only low, it also makes her defend him. Hell, I had a gf and there was one AFC constantly talking to her, saying negative things about me. Guess what, she defended me or simply ignored him. How do I know? I've got female friends. :)
Author:  iLoveTurtles [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 10:52 pm ]
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I never ever put the BF down. I always say something in lines of "that must be great!" etc. If they really disagree with that then I know I can go on. If they somewhat agree with me, I just leave them alone.

Putting the BF down is not only low, it also makes her defend him. Hell, I had a gf and there was one AFC constantly talking to her, saying negative things about me. Guess what, she defended me or simply ignored him. How do I know? I've got female friends. :)

I'm not going to pretend I'm some expert. I have never stolen someone's girl but I wouldn't mind if I was given the opportunity because it's good practice. But what you generally try to do is direct it so that she sees you as a better mate without dragging her BF down.
Author:  om3n [ Tue Nov 08, 2011 11:46 pm ]
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I never ever put the BF down. I always say something in lines of "that must be great!" etc. If they really disagree with that then I know I can go on. If they somewhat agree with me, I just leave them alone.

Putting the BF down is not only low, it also makes her defend him. Hell, I had a gf and there was one AFC constantly talking to her, saying negative things about me. Guess what, she defended me or simply ignored him. How do I know? I've got female friends. :)

I'm not going to pretend I'm some expert. I have never stolen someone's girl but I wouldn't mind if I was given the opportunity because it's good practice. But what you generally try to do is direct it so that she sees you as a better mate without dragging her BF down.
Exactly. The BF always has some flaws, so he can't really match what I've said (all I say about BFsis positive), but if she's content with him and his flaws, I stop trying right there and I befriend the girl instead.
Author:  Au Naturel [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 1:01 am ]
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Morals? Let me ask the boyfriend this. What right do you have to deny my presence?
Um, it's not about a right to deny your presence, it's about a right to deny you hitting on his girl. If you were just hanging out with sexual agenda it wouldn't be a problem. But you clearly are.

Word of warning, there are some extremely crazy boyfriends out there. I met a guy who kissed a girl at a bar and two weeks later a guy showed up at his house, put a gun in his mouth, smashed out two of his teeth, cut up his lips and slashed his face like the joker. then said "now you'll never kiss another girl again"

That's the exception, but I just don't understand why you'd be comfortable causing pain to some guy just so you can fuck his girlfriend for an hour or so of pleasure. Seriously, what kind of Machiavellian cunt does that.
Author:  jurupa [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 4:20 am ]
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My policy is if the girl has a boyfriend I move on to the next one. I don't care about how good the relationship is or not. There are loads of other girls around here that are going to be single as number wise the odds are in my favor.
Author:  green_mo [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 6:30 am ]
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My policy is if the girl has a boyfriend I move on to the next one. I don't care about how good the relationship is or not. There are loads of other girls around here that are going to be single as number wise the odds are in my favor.
Agree with you :)
Author:  Century100 [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 6:35 am ]
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I agree. I'm in a relationship now and don't understand why people have to be so bloodthirsty. SO many guys have tried for my amazing girl knowing she's with me.
Of course she rejects them because she's one of the few really good girls as far as I know so her so far.
But even when I was single - it doesn't make sense.

In fact, if a girl who has a boyfriend flirts with me I lose all respect for her and think she is a total slut.
I don't understand why anyone would do that...completely selfish.
I smacked a guy who kept inviting my girl to sleepovers hard - and it wasn't out of jealousy or feeling threatened - it was out of him showing a complete lack of disrespect for another human being
Author:  Au Naturel [ Wed Nov 09, 2011 6:44 am ]
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the community is filled with people absolutely terrified of rejection and the only way they can get over it, is by deluding themselves that someday they'll never be rejected, and that every rejection means your game wasn't tight enough no matter what her circumstances are.

They think girls with boyfriends are just an extra challenge. Mystery is a prime example and an inspiration to such people. "I haven't been rejected since 2005" nonsense. With 7 billion people on earth there are probably 1/4 of billion single women, or to put it in perspective, Germany, France, England and Italy combined worth of single chicks. Shag one of them and cause less drama for everyone....including yourself
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