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Author:  baggyizzle [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 10:45 am ]
Post subject:  Disagreement with mate

Hey,

My mates dad owns a petrol station and they have recently hired this cute girl. She is aware of my mate's dad owning it and he wanted to ask her out. They dont know much about each other so l suggested just going for drinks. He did as such and she said yes and he numbered closed.

I suggested waiting 3 days to message her because the date was 5 days away and he said today that he wanted to turn it into a date where he goes putt putt and than sushi and maybe ice-cream.

I believe with asking her for a simple drink and not knowing to much about this chick is better than a full date type scenario. Espically after she is only aware of the drinks

What is everyone elses thoughts....

Author:  PUAMonster [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 5:16 pm ]
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He should definitely just stick to the original plan. She's only expecting drinks. Don't go over the top with this. I think a full date might scare her off.

Author:  bansario [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 6:12 pm ]
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Drinks is more than enough.

If I were him though, I'd be a bit more concerned about getting involved with his employees (I know it's his dad's business, but the chain of command falls down to him too).

If things don't work between the two of them, it could turn really awkward.

Also, did anyone mention "golddigger"?! Beware ;)

Author:  SmoothOp [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 6:22 pm ]
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Tell him to do drinks and have a back up idea if the date is going well. It'll seem out of the blue and the girl will enjoy it more. Bitches love surprises! Just set of logistics to appear smooth and random(but pre-planned). Also the girl may back out if you plan a whole day around her since she may get nervous. So do a quick drink that may lead to more if going well.

Author:  MrNashizzle [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 11:02 pm ]
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Sounds good, looks likes it is drinks. Thanks boys.

Author:  magnum45 [ Tue Nov 01, 2011 1:29 am ]
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Drinks is more than enough.

If I were him though, I'd be a bit more concerned about getting involved with his employees (I know it's his dad's business, but the chain of command falls down to him too).

If things don't work between the two of them, it could turn really awkward.

Also, did anyone mention "golddigger"?! Beware ;)
I agree with this. Your friend is obviously in a position of power because her very lively hood relies on his father. While it isn't bad, it sure as hell isn't ideal. It's almost like owning someone. She is forced to agree to his demands out of fear of losing her job. Plus she needs his fathers money to live, so she will be searching for ways to get into the sons favor because of her desire for wealth.

I can only predict negative outcomes for their relationship, unless this is Cinderella story. But since your friend is making the move so quickly it seems more like a horny toad story.

That being said, she obviously wants this to be serious. So if he really likes her then he should go full out. She won't be scared off because he's fucking loaded compared to her. She is probably from a lower income family. It would be an great for her to have a serious relationship with her bosses son. She would get many benefits. It would actually be hard for him to fuck this up.

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