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Author:  joker5811 [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:19 am ]
Post subject:  Im stuck with no clue on how to handle this
Ok, here is my situation. A couple of months ago, I met this woman at her work where i was doing security. The woman is very beautiful, smart and has a great sense of personality and humor. She is a hardcore 9. Well at the time she was dating this guy who is a singer in a local band that sucks in my opinion. Since she was dating this guy, i never made a move on her and we became close friends. I started telling her about all the adventures i have had picking up women and the crazy stories of the game. I always displayed confidence since I thought we were just friends and i didnt have a chance. Well on the last day that I worked for the security company, she told me that she would call me if anything happened to her and the singer, and that she would want me as a fuck buddy. She also asked if i would start running with her. Well on our first day of running at the park, I built up the confidence to just pull her up to me and kiss her. Well that was about 5 weeks ago and we have been fooling around but not fucking since. She keeps telling me that she is not that easy which i know she just wants me not to think any less of her. She also broke up with the singer about 2 weeks ago. Well we always run at this park that has nature trails. Well last Tuesday, as we were driving into the park, I notice a flyer that the park was going to have a haunted forest on the trails Friday. Well i expressed my interest in wanting to go. Well she said that she was afraid of the dark and wasnt sure. The next day she called me and told me that she wanted us to go to the park for the haunted trails and afterwards wanted me to go with her to get a tattoo. Well we went and she held on to me tight like a girlfriend. I started noticing about 3 weeks before that i was really getting alot of feelings for this girl. I have realized that i want her as more than just a friend or fuck buddy. Well i conveyed my feelings to her and she told me that she doesnt know if she could date me because she knows too much about me. So i asked her does she have feelings like that for me and She smiled at me and said, "I plead the fifth." I have asked all of my friends that are just girls and they all tell me that she wants a relationship with me but is afriad i am not ready to calm down or she is just playing hard to get. I need to know what is going on and what i need to do. Please help!!!!!!!
Author:  Snake Doctor [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:24 am ]
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Let me just make sure about something

So she was cheating on her b/f? while she was with you?
Author:  joker5811 [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:37 am ]
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well i wouldnt but it like that because she would never really let it get out of control. like when i would kiss her she would pull away and tell me to stop. well that was until this last week
Author:  joker5811 [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:43 am ]
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i should have but teasing each other instead of fooling around
Author:  Kabi [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:54 am ]
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You sound like the nice guy that waits for his chance, and I used to be like that too, we have a similar situation, and I got FZ/Fuck buddy. You should always take your chance, dont let another guy stop you, it may be nasty to steal another dudes girl, but dont hate the player, hate the game.

If she knows to much about you it might be that some of these qualities are not attractive to her and bothers her. Or it is your actions, you're maybe needy or to forward or whatever. Im afraid you can end up in RAW FZ. I've manage to turn the tables around once with this, and I just started to play my role as a man.Everything will go in my paste and not hers this goes with anything. If she calls, if she wants to meet, if she wants to fuck, I do it when I want to do it, I even set a date and time just to play busy. And this attracted the girl that fz me (and attracts other girls too), you can even be rude if you want to, if she likes you she wont be mad at your for it, and you can get away with it easily. It is attractive for a girl to not have full control over a man. But you must give it to her sometimes to keep it stable. If you're in a relationship you have to be a gentleman and share the control in a rate of 50/50 :)

What ever you do, dont be needy, feelings will get you and your mindset mixed up, listen to your feelings but conclude with your mind. Good luck bro!
Author:  joker5811 [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 12:59 am ]
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Well i havent been really too needy because once all that was said we went out to get her tat then when for a drink at a local bar and nothing else was said about it and when we left each other we kissed. she says that the only reason she wants to fuck me is to see if it is true about i am in the bed. but then she is always hanging out with me and texting me ans giving me major ioi's like kissing and all of that. im just confused as hell
Author:  Tromz [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 1:11 am ]
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Alright, I get that you want this girl but you need to try and not get your hopes up. I don't know this girl, do I can't tell you anything for certain, but from what you've said she doesn't seem like the kind of girl who wants a real relationship. I honestly don't think she would say that she just wants to your fuck buddy if she actually wanted something more. Personally, I'd just go along with it and see where it ends up, but do what you can not to get too attached because I don't see this turning out in the way you seem to want it to. Again though, this is just from my interpretation of what you said I could be completely wrong. Either way good luck with her though, I hope things turn out well for you.
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