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Author:  AthleticSmartass [ Sat Oct 29, 2011 10:25 am ]
Post subject:  How to regain her interest?
Yesterday I went to a party with a girl I met a week earlier. Unfortunately the party was all about dancing, which I'm not good at and I could feel her getting more interested in the guys who danced better or crazier than I did. On the way home I had the impression that she was a bit colder to me than before and unfortunately I did not have any "alone time" with her, since some drunk guy from our group decided to walk with us, so absolutely nothing happened. There was no kino the whole night.
How can I get back her interest in me? I was thinking about asking her to meet up Monday or Tuesday. Any ideas for this (but please something involving no dancing...)?
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Sat Oct 29, 2011 10:29 am ]
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you are insecure.. .trying to find ways to get approval and impress her...horrible...

do you want to learn how to dance or do you want to get woman...

if you want to dance go join dancing lessons
if you want to get a woman get good with woman in general...don't focus on one woman.
Author:  cixxy [ Sat Oct 29, 2011 10:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to regain her interest?
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Yesterday I went to a party with a girl I met a week earlier. Unfortunately the party was all about dancing, which I'm not good at and I could feel her getting more interested in the guys who danced better or crazier than I did. On the way home I had the impression that she was a bit colder to me than before and unfortunately I did not have any "alone time" with her, since some drunk guy from our group decided to walk with us, so absolutely nothing happened. There was no kino the whole night.
How can I get back her interest in me? I was thinking about asking her to meet up Monday or Tuesday. Any ideas for this (but please something involving no dancing...)?
what happened was u got out-alphaed by the other dudes in the club yo. Its not about the dancing moves its more about ur body language and confidence.

So what u need to do is talk to her and after the small talk, tell her u dont dance much but since u is the type of person who like to strive to be the best at everythang u do u say ur already learnin about new dance moves etc and want to show her some time
Author:  Lodewijkp [ Sat Oct 29, 2011 10:55 am ]
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she isn't attracted otherwise she wouldn't be so distant ..

just tell her : you are not like other guys you just want her to suck your dick.

you are putting huge value on someone who thinks dancing is important... lol..

i like dancing ..

but there are things in life which are 10000 times more important than that kind of shit.
Author:  nikki valentine [ Sat Oct 29, 2011 11:01 am ]
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I would say keep in contact with her, while at the same time go out and experience the world, working on your game and just how you are around women in general. That way she'll notice the changes as well. And hey you can always try push-pull as well once rapports been built
Author:  laidbacklover [ Sat Oct 29, 2011 11:04 am ]
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Use the cupcake routine:

It's where you text a girl "hey i got u a cupcake"

Why does it work?

Coz it can't be any worse than what you are thinking of asking her, and you can be cocky funny. She will be intrigued, and if u do hang out with her you can always bring up the elusive cupcake.

Think about it.

ps. i just made up the cupcake routine but if it takes off i TM it.
pps I have used it and it worked.
Author:  P-Style [ Sat Oct 29, 2011 2:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How to regain her interest?
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I did not have any "alone time" with her, since some drunk guy from our group decided to walk with us, so absolutely nothing happened. There was no kino the whole night.
Oh come on.

It's impossible to talk to a girl when there's a drunk dude with you?
It's impossible to touch a girl when there's a drunk dude with you?
Drop the excuses. A drunk dude is a huge opportunity to dhv but you failed to recognize.
Author:  AthleticSmartass [ Sat Oct 29, 2011 5:25 pm ]
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I know I failed and I already learned from that. The question is how I can "rescue" this and regain her attraction if that's possible.
Also, she is a rather classy girl. One of my friends is very cocky and she told me she doesn't like that, so I need to be careful. However, I can definitely make her laugh even though my friends told me she has no sense of humor, so I guess that's a plus for me...
Author:  AthleticSmartass [ Sun Oct 30, 2011 7:23 pm ]
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Any further advice?
Author:  pumpington [ Sun Oct 30, 2011 8:01 pm ]
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here is an idea,just throwing it up in the air, give her a week or two break in seeing you, next time you are hanging out with her, isolate her first, don't be a fucking pussy it is easy as fuck to do, just say lets go talk over here *point* alone I want to get to know you better, just start thinking about her sucking your dick, visualize it, stop thinking about everything else, don't worry about other guys, don't worry about if she likes you, focus on her and you, and the two of you in sexual acts together, think about it, and visualize it, if you are getting a boner you are doin it right, now start trying to put the physical actions in play to fuck her, she will try to resist along the way, she will throw tests, don't cave in, just keep imagining sex, and continue to push things towards sex, touch her, eye contact, just keep asking her questions about herself, don't talk about yourself make it all about her, TOUCH THE FUCK OUT OF HER,

if the night ends in her either, telling you to fuck off, leave me alone, or you getting laid, you did it right

if the night ends with a fuck off, or a leave me a alone, then she is not interested, no amount of voodoo dhv's will change this you are not her type,

you know after that, if she is worth it or not, you get what you put into it, no effort to get laid = no results, take more risks don't worry about the outcome she will either sleep with you or she will not, way better to get the I WILL NOT and move on, then to waste your time for ever then finally man up and realize you got the I WILL NOT anyways

*SIDE NOTE* if you at any point have a shift in mental state from her and you having sex together with you visualizing sex acts between the two of you, you will probably feel anxious, so switch the fuck back to sex mode, get horny, act on it

also make sure you have a place to fuck her, either your house or your car, the closer you are to the place you can take her the better, if she cools down from being horny (this is your goal, not seek her approval until she escalates on you), she could change her mind, so keep the sex place close, or keep her hot

best place to hang out is at your house, watching a movie, IMO (has worked better then anything else for me and if she is over 18 she knows the fuckn score)

GOOD LUCK
Author:  yourescortguide [ Mon Oct 31, 2011 9:31 am ]
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Thanks for sharing............
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