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hooked up with a girl last weekend. she friended me a day ago and i waited a day to accept. now i wanna send her a message and start up a convo to try and hook up again. what should i say? just a simple what's up? seems lame. what do you guys say?
1-Wait till she's online so you can chat with her. Sending a message is just too formal and the interaction takes too much time.2-Chatting with a woman on facebook is very similar to text game. If anything, it's a bit better because the responses come fast, which means that you can create attraction quicker. Now, I don't know how well your text game is but that'd be a different thread on its own.
3-Do not make too many references about the past when you're interacting with her. I don't know what your "hook up" consisted of, but let's say she was drunk when you two met, that's something you don't want to bring back or make fun of...be careful.
4-Try to make a transition from the internet to phones. Try to get her number as soon as possible and drop the online interaction.
5-While you're online, do not chat for too long. Remember, you should always convey the fact that you're a busy man, who has a lot of shit to do. If you spend chatting with a girl 5 hours you are basically saying that she's the only thing you have at the moment (gives you a bad image).
6- Drop the conversation when you feel she's enjoying the most. Calibration is required, so be careful. If you do it correctly, she'll want to talk to you more in the future.
Good luck
