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Author:  Efildrah [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 7:35 pm ]
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I have this quite often, girls don't even do numbers now...everyone is on facebook, but does anyone have any good routine that can protect you from this ultra-boring question, like when you don't want to give her your facebook and want to look like you don't add just anyone to your facebook?

Any good ideas...
My usual answer is:,, Depends...''
She:,, Ok, whatever'' / ,,On what?'' / They ignore you and ask for surname...

And i can't think of something cool or special enough ...since i have really minimum friends ...about 66 in 4 years, i don't add people just to add somebody...but thats just me...so any ideas what is a good line vs ,,Do you have facebook'' ? :)

Author:  Tidy [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 7:57 pm ]
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I've never had an issue with girls giving me a number. I think the whole thing about some people "collecting friends" makes facebook the least exclusive contact information to get from a girl.

If they ask for your facebook, just tell them outright that you prefer to only keep your very closest friends on facebook. In fact with that reason you could possibly show them your 66 on your phone or something as a dhv. Tell them if they're really lucky you might consider it.

Author:  charblad [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 8:54 pm ]
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I've never had an issue with girls giving me a number. I think the whole thing about some people "collecting friends" makes facebook the least exclusive contact information to get from a girl.

If they ask for your facebook, just tell them outright that you prefer to only keep your very closest friends on facebook. In fact with that reason you could possibly show them your 66 on your phone or something as a dhv. Tell them if they're really lucky you might consider it.
Agreed basically make them work and qualify themselves for it, if your still uncomfortable ask them to give you theres and after you see it you'll decide (I like asking women for their number, it gives me control to txt her when i feel like it and I get to play with her while she waits for me to text, same thing with FB)

Author:  bansario [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 9:10 pm ]
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Her: "Do you have facebook?"

Me: "Yes, but I rarely go on it. You can add me if you want to."

Give her your name but never accept her invitation. Make sure your profile is set to private too so she can't go in and check it (just so you keep the mystery between the two of you going on).

Also, never accept a FB exchange as means of communication with a woman. Get her number or email, but do not accept a FB name or whatever.

Hope it helps :)

Author:  Tidy [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 9:16 pm ]
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Also, never accept a FB exchange as means of communication with a woman. Get her number or email, but do not accept a FB name or whatever.

Hope it helps :)
Agreed entirely. I never accept anything less than a number.
Although a good thing about FB is that if you pulled this girl while you were drunk, you re-check her out on her pics to see if you were wearing your beer goggles or not!

Author:  Efildrah [ Fri Oct 28, 2011 7:10 am ]
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I like the idea of 66 friends as DHV, maybe you are right, i usually don't want to be rude and say :,, No , sorry , won't add you '' , but saying only the lucky ones get in is kind of cool :) , thanks guys ,i got the idea now (also she gave me her FB and i still didn't add her, so maybe in few days XD) I will try to come up with some more ideas , cheers

Author:  FlyingDutchman [ Fri Oct 28, 2011 8:13 am ]
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Her: "Do you have facebook?"

Me: "Yes, but I rarely go on it. You can add me if you want to."

Give her your name but never accept her invitation. Make sure your profile is set to private too so she can't go in and check it (just so you keep the mystery between the two of you going on).

Also, never accept a FB exchange as means of communication with a woman. Get her number or email, but do not accept a FB name or whatever.

Hope it helps :)
Great stuff, I myself have lots of friends on FB and must admit that I have never thought of it this way. It's kinda cool how you handle this, because as you say, it creates mystery.

I always try to be the most social guy around. Both on- and offline, but not sure now if that's the best way to go.

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