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Author:  TonyS [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 3:42 pm ]
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So Sunday evening i hooked up with a girl, made out, had lots of fun, overall awesome night. She said that she was very busy Monday and Tuesday and that we'll talk some later.

I didn't call/text her Monday. I text and call her Tuesday, no answer. I call her today, no answer, no call back. Is this normal or am i missing something ? I mean, you have an excuse for not being able to answer, but not for not calling back, everyone can find 5 minutes to make a phone call.

It's a total mind fuck because it transitioned from awesome to gruesome in a day without any reason. Also we work together so we might run into each other in the next days so it'll be even weirder. If we do, should i ask her why she's not been answering or should i pretend nothing happened ?
Author:  P-Style [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 4:07 pm ]
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If she ignores you, you give her a cookie of her own pastery. (If in english that isn't an expression: it just means it's best for you to ignore her back.)
Author:  charblad [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 4:21 pm ]
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If she ignores you, you give her a cookie of her own pastery. (If in english that isn't an expression: it just means it's best for you to ignore her back.)
Lol maybe thats similar to "giver her a taste of her own medicine" (means same thing) but basically yea, if a girl doesn't answer after so many txts/calls just leave her and go on the better girls
Author:  bansario [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 6:05 pm ]
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Everyone agrees that you should drop her for a while to see if she'll come back, but do we know why she's behaving that way?

There might be a lot of reasons, but usually women who have boyfriends or other men on the side tend to do this kind of stuff (disappearing for no reason...)

Now don't come giving me the same old "I know she's single..." You know that has no meaning whatsoever...women say a lot of things...
Author:  EddieFews [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 6:23 pm ]
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Like the above poster said, shes talking to other guys. Sure you were interesting and fun but she's most likey involved with someone. If you see her pretend nothing happened. Its no big deal. After all its just a woman.
Author:  TonyS [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 7:49 pm ]
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Yeah i'm not gonna go with the "i'm 10010% sure she's single", you can never be certain of anything in this life. Come to think of it she never mentioned having anyone and i never asked, i just assumed and she was probably happy i didn't ask. But she did act like she was single, and when when we parted that night she was like "what you don't wanna see me again ?" (as if she did want to see me further). Is why i'm so surprised that now she's dodging me all of a sudden.

Thanks guys.
Author:  stugots [ Wed Oct 26, 2011 9:22 pm ]
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Yeah i'm not gonna go with the "i'm 10010% sure she's single", you can never be certain of anything in this life. Come to think of it she never mentioned having anyone and i never asked, i just assumed and she was probably happy i didn't ask. But she did act like she was single, and when when we parted that night she was like "what you don't wanna see me again ?" (as if she did want to see me further). Is why i'm so surprised that now she's dodging me all of a sudden.

Thanks guys.
How old is she? I just ask, because younger girls tend to play these types of games (or f'd up ones), older ones tend to be more direct, in my experience. I have a few girls I'm trying to get with that are quite younger than me (mid 20's) and sometimes they seem totally down to hang and get a drink, then follow-up and they disappear. I just let it go for awhile, some time goes, I txt or call again, and they respond. I'm SURE they're talking to tons of guys and going out with their gf's etc. Whatever. Just stay off the stalker path.

Sometimes they wait a little until they get back to you to see if you're the stalker type. I don't know if that's the case here, but I'd definitely lay low for awhile...
Author:  TonyS [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 1:42 pm ]
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She's 19. We met at work today, she basically acted like she didn't even know me, just a simple hi and a cold shoulder. I said hi and ignored her the rest of the day. Women are so weird.
Author:  stugots [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 8:41 pm ]
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She's 19. We met at work today, she basically acted like she didn't even know me, just a simple hi and a cold shoulder. I said hi and ignored her the rest of the day. Women are so weird.
Oh jeez, teenagers, yeah, expect tons of headgames; again, you don't want to vere into the stalker zone. I was about to say young people, but in reality, people in general, even as they get older, tend to be more insecure than you might think. However, young people, especially teenage girls (I have a younger sister and I remember what it was like growing up) can be just outright looney. Especially now-a-days, I feel your generation feels social pressures more than any other one before it.

Unfortunately, this can go either way - she could like you, but her friends think you're a loser (or are jealous), so she plays these games, she may simply not like you and doesn't know how to say it, she simply may just like hooking up with you when drunk; unfortunately you're in the height of that HIGHLY insecure age stage. My suggestion, don't even think about it. Damn, you're a young guy, go out and try to bang the world! Ignoring her will also probably drive her crazy! - so that's a good step. If it doesn't, then I hate to say it, she just doesn't care and you're probably no where...

Best,

J.
Author:  magicrob86 [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 8:51 pm ]
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so you work with this girl? ,or what.. you just said in your intro post that you hooked up with a girl and had fun..

now she came into work.. how long have you known her, alcohol envolved?


could be a few reasons..

maybe this was the first time you hung out with her, and things pushed to fast.. and shes having buyers remorse

as J said dont be a stalker
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Thu Oct 27, 2011 9:40 pm ]
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i'm surprised no one has said the age-old and obvious answer:














she is playing hard to get

derp
Author:  TonyS [ Fri Oct 28, 2011 4:29 am ]
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Yeah we kind of work together, i work for Coke and she just got hired as a cashier in a supermarket. This was our first date ever, we've known each other for like 4 days prior.

What i ment by hooked up was that by the end of the date we kind of formed a couple. Holding hands when walking, hugs, lots of kisses, etc, basically like we've been together for years. I'm guessing buyer's remorse as well.
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Fri Oct 28, 2011 9:41 am ]
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i would not mention your employer by name in forums like these.

nothing useful can come of it.

under certain circumstances, bad things can come from it.

my two cents.
Author:  bansario [ Fri Oct 28, 2011 11:28 am ]
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Haha, maybe he works for Pepsi and is using some diversion. OR maybe he's the CEO of Coca Cola and he's using this forum for promotion...great marketing strategy...I'm thirsty now hahaha
Author:  stugots [ Fri Oct 28, 2011 8:36 pm ]
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Yeah we kind of work together, i work for Coke and she just got hired as a cashier in a supermarket. This was our first date ever, we've known each other for like 4 days prior.

What i ment by hooked up was that by the end of the date we kind of formed a couple. Holding hands when walking, hugs, lots of kisses, etc, basically like we've been together for years. I'm guessing buyer's remorse as well.
The Mack is right, she could be playing hard to get, women do liked to be chased, no matter what they say however... holding hands, kissing, hugging, that's not really my definitely of hooking up. If she's 19, for all you know (although doubtful in this day in age) she could be a virgin....
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